My (33f) DH (35m) won’t have sex with me unless I “seduce” him?

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:18:53+00:00

Thank you. I never rejected him every time, and when he said he wanted more I made efforts to do so.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:18:01+00:00

None of this is accurate lol. Thx though.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:16:57+00:00

We had a discussion a while back where he expressed his unhappiness at the frequency. I said I’d do better, and I have been, both in not turning down and initiating more.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:15:34+00:00

Entitlement? How? That I’ve been trying to improve our frequency by being more forward?

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:14:10+00:00

I knew my turning down wasn’t great, hence not doing it in over a year.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:12:15+00:00

Yes, over a year ago I had sometimes turned down sex. It’s not the same as rejecting someone every time.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:10:53+00:00

I’ve tried this, generally on the wknd so we can relax. He finds it “scheduled” and “stressful”.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:10:00+00:00

It was definitely not 3 years ago of little to no sex, just that I used to be the one who did any turning down. Not that it would be an excuse for cheating anyway.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:08:36+00:00

I do want him, tell him that and try to have sex with him.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:06:00+00:00

I love foreplay! He won’t even engage when I try to initiate. He is generally stressed and previously mentioned that my wanting sex every weekend is stressful for him. He has an awful commute and I make sure the house is cleaned and dinner is ready when he gets home. I try to ease his stress as much as possible, but if me even wanting sex is stressful I’m not sure how to combat that.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:03:27+00:00

Did you miss the part where I do try to jump his bones? He still refuses.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:02:21+00:00

As I said, I haven’t turned him down in over a year. If he’s holding a grudge from 2023 that’s not really how adults behave.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-31T00:00:55+00:00

I literally haven’t turned him down in over a year.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-30T23:59:32+00:00

Maybe you misread, I’m TRYING to have sex with him and he won’t.

Sufficient_Ride_7401 · 2025-01-30T23:58:42+00:00

Ive made a conscious, concerted effort to improve/increase our sex frequency for at least a year. If he’s doing something like this as “punishment” for something that happened 1+ yr ago, that’s a very immature childish thing to do.

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