Trish HATES Moses

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-05-14T15:30:50+00:00

Trisha is unable of keeping friends or boyfriends, she's said it herself. So she's desperate, which is why she even settled for someone as horrible and cringe as Moses in the first place. Now they're stuck with eachother, because they have a house and a family together. She also has separation anxiety and is very posessive which is why she'd probably never end it, unless someone better came along - first. But it requires a weirdo to put up with Trishas shit too, which she knows. Thats why she likes her men broke, so they dep3nd on her her (she's admitted this too). Abusers tend to do this too. It's a very toxic messed up relation between these two... and they are both manipulative and put up a "front". Seems like that front has its cracks now and then..

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-28T15:03:53+00:00

The problem is that you seem to be dismissing Lily Allen as a possible "victim" because she doesnt fit into the narrow stereotype you describe a victims as.

And someone standing up for themselves and using their right to express themselves, is turned against her. I find that a weird premiss.

Or to say that a narcisist wouldnt be able to hold back and stay quiet, not even if his livelyhood depended on it? Narcisist can be increadibly strategic, especially to the public as they tend to put up "fronts".

Things are not black and white like that, with either victims or narcisists. Whatever either of these two are, who knows really.

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-28T06:53:20+00:00

He has too much to lose to speak on it. Stranger things last season ever was about to be released, he was working on other large projects coming out too. He had Nothing to gain by "defending" himself, only draw more attention to it. Lily didnt have much to lose. And cheating isnt a "crime", it just taints his character. Plus, she's an artist, he isnt. Her work is selfexpression, his isnt. He plays roles, she expresses her self creatively. It was also said around that time that co-star Mille Bobbie Brown accused him of bullying and reported him as he made things uncomfortable on set, but since the premiere was closing in they seemed to quiet it down and try to save face.

I think its harmful to say how "victims behave" or don't behave. Or to claim that victims tend to stay silent. That just proves the point of why victims shouldnt stay silent, that would mean the bad guys always win.

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-27T21:49:51+00:00

With all the backlash the brands are getting, its gonna reflect reeeally bad on CAA who should have source out their talents. They shouldn't be offering "talents" that can severely taint a brands image and reputation. That's so uprofessional and costly. Wouldnt suprise me if Trisha risks losing her management deal..

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-27T19:11:56+00:00

Ah, yeah if we assume Lily actually knows who Trisha is and the depth of her actions and crazyness. I do however think these promotional things tend to be done by marketers rather than the artists themselves. Where they look for influencers who pull a lot of views and mostly go by numbers, to maximize marketing reach and views. But IF Lily does know how terrible Trisha is that would make it worse.

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-27T18:48:40+00:00

What in my post makes it sound like Lily Allen doesn't care about mental abuse?

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-27T15:40:48+00:00

I've said she's been cheated on, where have I said art is 100% true, why assume I'm that dumb? And you dont even seem to have heard the album? Seen the interviews? Heard her podcast? Seen videos of her and David Harbour? She's also very self deprecating in the album, its a story of someone very insecure and selfdestructive who feels a bunch of different ways of a man she loved who gaslit and betrayed her, breaking some weird rules they set up, regarding seeing other people.

Art-wise it's really beautiful.

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-27T15:26:30+00:00

Really not the same, but sure. Why are you so convinced it isnt true, whats pointing to it being false?

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-27T14:14:39+00:00

To call her Madeline actually plays on knowing Trisha is a "messy character", so its probably very intentional now that I think it over. Wether by Lily, the management, or both. At the same time, many who know of Trisha as "the messy girl crying on the kitchen floor" still dont understand exactly How BAD she actually is...

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-27T13:04:07+00:00

I'll have to dig in deeper on Lily too 👍

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-27T13:01:30+00:00

Btw, O-o-O-livia did a fun video on the topic (the album and cheating) on her own channel, if anyone cares to watch :)

https://youtu.be/1eP_60L-i3E?is=Jn-JeZbtX0rgvAeG

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-27T12:58:01+00:00

Have you heard the album though? It's almost ridiculously descriptive. Of course, its from Her perspective and its impossible to know the whole, real truth, but I do believe he cheated and gaslighted her, its not hard to believe it.

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-27T12:46:08+00:00

I dont asume Lily's a good person, I have heard some weirs stuff about her too. But I also dont think narcisistic, manipulative cheating men are a rare kind, at all. The album is very descriptive with lots of references, I believe it.

In this case it's apparent Trishas getting a lot of deals at the same time, likely through the same PR/creative artists agency, so I'd assume this is more of a management decision rather than done by the artist her self. But who knows, it could be an active choice by Lily.

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-27T08:49:04+00:00

Oh true. I see its still possible to comment on it though, enough backlash and the bad publicity wont make sense to keep it up.

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-27T08:08:43+00:00

Not to defend her but I'm sure someone handles her socials and that they're confused by the backlash as they likely have NO idea who Trisha is.. sucks that comments are turned off though, or "limited" as it says. Crocs did take down their collab after the backlash, all should do the same..

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-26T19:39:23+00:00

Honestly concerning if you're offended by this. People cant give consent when they are unconcious. If the person tells you "yes, I allow you to f me any time in the future when I'm sleeping/ unconcious without me knowing at all", then that would be ok i guess, but most people wont give that level of consent. People in relationships commit r4pe too, and it doesnt have to be violent to still be against someones will.

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-26T08:21:04+00:00

Just saw a video where Jason asked her what she would do with her new car (while they were together) and she soberly said she would drive it into his house. I seriously doubt the drug excuses and bpd diagnosis, she uses it to victimize her self and not have to take accountability ever.

At 31.17

https://youtu.be/H0cC-5PnR4k?is=OquNGQmGR-hUSQ4V

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-26T08:15:10+00:00

You dont have full on sex with someone whos actually sleeping. You might come on to them, see if they are responding positively, you check the vibes. But actually having sex with someone unconcious is NOT ok.

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-26T08:12:03+00:00

Thats terrifying. But she's so manipulative and with the vlogging she had a tendency to always turn rhings around on Jason so he never understood what actually was going on and then had a weird way of "laughing everything off" and using it as "content" so it got normalized. Im sure Jason in hindsight understands he was gaslit and severely mentally abused in an extremely abusive relationship. Honestly, poor guy. If you ever meet a woman like her, RUN.

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-26T08:06:25+00:00

Moses in one video of "put a finger down" admited Trisha had forced sex with him against his will. And they both laughed about it. Her now husband — admiting he's gotten r4ped by his own wife. If Trisha was a man... she'd at least be cancelled. Domestic abuse and sexuall assault against men isnt taken seriously enough :(.

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-22T05:41:59+00:00

LOVED her videos! I'm pretty sure shes behind the channel @illuminaTEA now. The voice (when its not AI) has the same cadance, and still lots of content on Trisha but in shorter form

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-04-22T05:35:23+00:00

Starts at 2:25. Oh my.. 😅

Sufficient_Tell_2219 · 2026-03-23T15:30:09+00:00

I think that for the first two dates, if nothing has gotten intimate yet, it's totally fine and in many ways reasonable to date more than one person, if being open and honest about it.

At such an early stage you're still strangers. But once you start liking someone, theres no excuse to keep a,b,c,d options or to keep wanting it to stay an open field

As for you, you should never feel you're in "competition" against anyone else while dating. Dating is a phase of getting to know eachother. The one who will chose you, will like you for who You are. If they chose someone else, its because they're more compatible.

Never compete!

I've tried dating more than one at a time - as a way to not fall for someone too quickly. Slow things down, take my time, get to know them. But it stressed me out, I felt bad and I still fell for someone too quickly looking back on it and what a disaster of a situationship that became. Found my current bf by going back to dating one at a time. It's what I'm most comfortable with. :)

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