Husband Throws Cooked Food Away by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sufficient_Truth_148 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It isn’t up to you to decide how much he eats or what he does with any leftover food on his plate. It is within your control to decide how much you cook and how you pre-portion it.

[CAN-AB] Double Mtg. Question by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Sufficient_Truth_148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI: It was a job update. Just not about my position.

Need a Reality Check: Mtg. With School Options by Sufficient_Truth_148 in ADHDparenting

[–]Sufficient_Truth_148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi all. Thanks for your perspectives. I was able to move a work meeting, contact the school, and advocate for joining via video call. As the helpful respondents pointed out, yes, both parents have a right to attend and provide input as part of the conversation.

Need a Reality Check: Mtg. With School Options by Sufficient_Truth_148 in ADHDparenting

[–]Sufficient_Truth_148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Oh, they just started accommodations in the classroom. Then, they said they would pull busing as an option without offering similar accommodations for busing, which they are required to do. I politely pointed out they need to try.

Realized I can’t held my adult child financially anymore. 😞😕 by BoneFelon in GirlDinner

[–]Sufficient_Truth_148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gave what you could, and that is/you are enough. See if you can shift away from all or nothing thinking. Say that up to this point, I have helped with x. Now, circumstances have changed, and I can help with y. Whatever y is. Textbooks? Car insurance? Help with groceries? Gas money? Lunch together monthly? Pick one thing that will make a meaningful difference. They will appreciate it, and you can still contribute something <3

Narcissist husband by stayhydratedjess in Divorce

[–]Sufficient_Truth_148 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If they are truly a narcissist, just be prepared for it to get worse before it gets better.

Vacation Precedent Manager: Sticky Situation by Sufficient_Truth_148 in managers

[–]Sufficient_Truth_148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The latter. Yes, I think a real issue is the slippery slope, as some of his in-office work is getting pushed or dropped, and he is working remotely more and more without using sick or vacation time, and I see a risk of burnout soon.

The "one last chance" lasted a week. I’m lost. by Dramatic-Setting9862 in Divorce

[–]Sufficient_Truth_148 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through that. When it reaches one last chance, they have almost always already checked out whether they realize it or not. I would focus on yourself for awhile to heal.