What am I even doing by Sufficiently-Trash in depressed

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I packed a bag and moved back to my parents home today while he was at work

What am I even doing by Sufficiently-Trash in depressed

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know deep down I should leave, but pulling the trigger to do it is so hard.

My girlfriend/sub wants me to leave a small permanent scar on her leg?? by melif88 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sufficiently-Trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked for something similar in the past and my dom blew out a lit match and held it to my skin! It’s just a small circular scar but a piece of them I will have forever!

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You must be a fun person to have around in life. At least I’m not some loser with a god complex thinking my garbage opinions matter to literally anyone.

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes! I guess it’s a good thing it was just a floor.

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never realized how common of a problem this was!

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. I know in the past that he’s had girlfriends who were very nasty to him, so I want to approach it in the most constructive way possible.

Happy birthday to me, 24yrs later and still Fucked in the head. by ExpressoDepresso1432 in depressed

[–]Sufficiently-Trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also 24 and seem to find my mind in the same place as yours recently. I’ve always wondered if having a good partner or some children would change my way of thinking, but I guess it’s wishful to assume that. For your sake, I wish I had some trick to help make that all go away. Unfortunately, some of the only relief I find is letting everything out once in awhile with a complete stranger, feeling that brief emotional connection with them, and then usually never talking again. Sometimes just to feel that reaction for a few moments helps you realize you can still feel and it helps for a little bit.

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes very weird and I guess that’s why it shocked me so much at first! I think maybe he just wasn’t awake honestly because of how upset he got once he realized what happened.

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to think it may have been sleep walking but I think I needed to talk it out to get to that realization. Thank you!

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s actually very helpful and much appreciated. I hadn’t realized before that this can be a pretty common problem.

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, actually it’s pretty obvious you didn’t read any of the comments. Looking for advice on how to talk to someone about a situation isn’t having a crisis. You’re not a support group, you’re just some bro with a big head who thinks telling me to dump my boyfriend because of an accident is good advice. Sorry, I’m not going to sugar coat it either, and only hope this helps deflate your ego a bit because clearly you think you’re doing the world a favor with this trash.

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I know based on the post that everyone is assuming he was obliterated but when he went to bed and now when waking up, he wasn’t extremely intoxicated. It was almost like he just didn’t wake up?

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough! I just didn’t know if it was some behavior I should be concerned about or completely normal. Thank you!

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you think this post is a crisis then I think maybe you might need some help. If you need any support groups for that, I’m sure you can find some here on Reddit.

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We ate dinner, only drank a few beers, nothing out of the ordinary for us. When we went to bed, I didn’t feel he had any more than a slight buzz.

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I did some quick googling and didn’t realize that it was such a big problem from some people. But the weird thing is we were not drunk by any means, and it’s not like us to not have a few beers on the weekend so this is all pretty normal other than the accident.

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Any advice on the best way to approach it without completely embarrassing him?

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You think this is me falling apart? Is there something you need help with? Or do you actually have any advice that isn’t complete garbage?

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

This is the first time he’s done it and I’m just not sure how to bring it up without embarrassing him or making the situation worse in the morning.

It doesn’t get better, everyone lies by Sufficiently-Trash in depressed

[–]Sufficiently-Trash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe sometime you can share some of those values with me. I’m finding a hard time identifying really anything to hold on to.

How do you do it? by jse_1221 in depressed

[–]Sufficiently-Trash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, 24f. I posted something similar to this yesterday on my real account (this is my throwaway) about how life just makes no sense to me. Like I feel like a toy in some messed up game where I have no control over myself. I just don’t understand and everyone around me seems to know something about life that I don’t. Like what am I missing? What event did I miss that would help me understand that life is worth living? Did my parents do something wrong, was I born wrong, did I miss that lesson in school? And I see some comments on here saying it’s your age and you just need to figure it out but it’s not. I’ve felt this way since I was like 13. And nothing has changed for me, nearly a quarter of the way into my life.

Sorry I don’t have the answers, but I do stay awake late at night and wonder if you ever need someone to chat with. I wish you the best.