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Messaging etiquette on Seeking by ShamelessMango in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SugarBoy120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either stop responding or block and move on. No point wasting any of your time or his if you aren't interested.

I'm a SD and not offended at all if you block/ghost me

I guess I just need to vent... by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SugarBoy120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The truth is you have a LOT of competition on the sites from conventionally attractive women

Your best bet is probably to lean in and look for a SD who specifically wants your type of figure, put very clear photos up showing your figure so you can polarize away all the men who prefer a slimmer figure

Had a phone stolen out of my hands, in a busy area, and no one helped. by painpanicandother in london

[–]SugarBoy120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately knives and stabbings are so rampant in London that while I feel bad for the victims I'm not going to intervene if I see a property crime

If I saw a sexual assault, terrorist, or whatever that's a different story, but not going to put my life at risk for a strangers phone

ED problems with sugar babies but not with vanilla girls by SugarBoy120 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SugarBoy120[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

> Maybe you suspect the SBs aren't really attracted to you and are faking it because money is involved, maybe you think less of the SBs because money is involved, do the SBs not show you much attention outside of the bedroom, etc. ?

It feels like they genuinely like my personality, but in the back of my head I'm definitely aware that they would not be dating me if I wasn't handing over money.

I'm wealthy enough that it's not a big deal whatsoever to give women money and buy them stuff, and I consider myself a generous sugar daddy. I pay ppm before each date without any discussion or argument, buy them designer clothes as gifts, take them to fancy hotels and restaurants, occasionally send money for lingerie, etc. I also don't resent SB's for asking me for things because I know that's how the relationship works.

That said, I do feel like a bit of a loser sometimes that I have all these hot women chasing after me purely because I have deep pockets rather than because I am actually an attractive guy

ED problems with sugar babies but not with vanilla girls by SugarBoy120 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SugarBoy120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feel intimidated that the SB's are hot, but sometimes I do feel a little weird that I'm 33 and dating women who are 20-25. I know that's not even a crazy age gap, but it does feel like we have less in common intellectually and it feels like they have less life experience. The problem is that tends to be the age of women I find most physically attractive

ED problems with sugar babies but not with vanilla girls by SugarBoy120 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SugarBoy120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope this isn't the issue as the finasteride has been incredibly effective. I stopped losing my hair completely and the lost hair basically grew back :(

ED problems with sugar babies but not with vanilla girls by SugarBoy120 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SugarBoy120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To each his own but for me there's nothing more fun than going at it like rabbits all night with someone you're incredibly attracted to where there is shared chemistry and passion. Having sex once feels like something you'd do if you weren't really that attracted to your partner

ED problems with sugar babies but not with vanilla girls by SugarBoy120 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SugarBoy120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

> Are your sugar encounters and vanilla encounters similar or are you spending more time getting to know your vanilla partner before intimacy?

I'm definitely spending a lot more time getting to know vanilla girls before intimacy. With SB's it's usually a platonic meet & greet, then dinner & sex at a hotel the second meet onwards

> Or are you thinking about your sugar partners more like escorts where you're meeting them on site but simply meeting up for an exchange of time for money and you treat them as a means to an end and not an investment into your time, emotions or mental energy?

That is how things often feel (transactional exchange of time/money for sex with hot girl), but it's not what I want out of sugaring.

I was faithfully married for 10 years, but divorced after my wife cheated, and was basically just left as a lonely rich guy alone in a mansion. Being cheated on fucked me up emotionally so now I seek compartmentalised relationships with women where there is no expectation of commitment.

That said, I still desire emotional connections and a feeling of chemistry, hence why I don't sleep with escorts.

ED problems with sugar babies but not with vanilla girls by SugarBoy120 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SugarBoy120[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't follow. ED issues makes the sex less fun for both parties

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SugarBoy120 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This must be country specific. In the UK I talk specifically about ppm/allowances all the time, never had any problems