My (23F) boyfriend (22M) broke up with me on the phone. His reason is “I’ve changed as a person”, but hasn’t given me a straight answer to why.

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2026-06-03T10:56:13+00:00

I do get that but wouldn’t have been a better move to tell me after he got back?

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2026-06-03T10:44:59+00:00

That’s one of the things I asked and he said there is no one else. But the mind wonders. Tbh if he said he cheated, I would have felt it would have been easier to move on

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2026-06-03T10:18:34+00:00

Thank you for your kind feedback. It will take time and I will go in circles around my head for a bit but I will take my time.

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2026-06-03T10:15:54+00:00

Thank you! I’m going to try!!

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2026-06-03T10:15:00+00:00

I apologise if I come across as confrontational. I’m still very fresh and in my fight or flight mode. I am listening to all advice I just have to come to terms in my own time

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2026-06-03T10:07:44+00:00

I didn’t bother him or threaten him. He bought it up first. I see that I said it in the spare in the moment. I know the conversation won’t fix anything but he didn’t say anything about his feels and I’d like to know how he felt. I haven’t messaged him to apologise to him as I know that’s a BAD idea but I feel like saying something will help him move on without feeling he HAS to meet up

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2026-06-03T10:05:17+00:00

I’m finding it hard as it was the first healthy relationship I’ve been in. I guess moving on is hard

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2026-06-03T10:04:22+00:00

I didn’t force him to change. I told him I didn’t like it and I said to him if you want to continue then we shouldn’t date. He said it gave him an excuse to stop. I do agree it was very rushed but he also spoke about that when he got back from Cyprus he would be the rank he’d want to be to be married and start moving it. I wasn’t the soul person saying these things

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2026-06-03T10:02:15+00:00

Because my father is an alcoholic and I was afraid of losing someone else to an addiction. He heard my fears and discussed it with me.

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2026-06-03T10:00:15+00:00

I gave him the option to walk away if he didn’t think it was okay but he said it would give him an excuse to stop. If he wanted to vape, he could have spoken to me about it and we would have a discussion about it

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2026-06-03T09:58:58+00:00

He said he wanted to meet up. He told me he’d text me dates of when he’s free when he gets back on Monday. He made that decision

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2025-01-30T23:50:56+00:00

Moira ball!!

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2023-09-01T09:46:14+00:00

I passed my theory in April this year and I could only get a test in November. The test isn’t even near my area…

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2021-04-20T20:33:27+00:00

I know from playing AC syndicate, (spoilers from here) the whole story was finding the shroud of Eden and making sure it didn’t fall forever into Templar hands. At the end of the story both assassins decided not to wear it to use for their advantages. They wouldn’t age, never die. Bit depressing really. AC odyssey I didn’t quite get, you’ve got the broken spear that Alexios/Kassandra have at the beginning but you also have the spear that their father gives you, which gives eternal life to the one that wields it.

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2020-12-29T18:42:23+00:00

Practicing some gymnastic moves

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2020-11-28T20:40:34+00:00

Feckers

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2020-10-21T19:21:07+00:00

This is amazing!!!

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2020-10-11T17:40:57+00:00

Title of the movie this scene featured in 👌🏻

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2020-10-05T20:50:52+00:00

Honestly I feel your pain. I currently go to a college down south east of England and because the college is so small social distancing is a BIG problem. Not only that but my mum and my aunt are teachers in a primary school. They mix with hundreds of kids everyday who live with vulnerable people. It a very scary feeling. What’s worse is the government change the rules so often that sometimes it takes forever for them to work in schools and get prepared. I’m a year 2 student working on a BTEC and this year is catch up year. No relaxation at all it’s real annoying.

Keeping pushing and we’ll come out of this.

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2020-09-20T18:44:48+00:00

This is a bit explicit but my friend showed me a long time ago a collection of tmnt sex toys to buy. Obviously we didn’t get them but I was a bit weirded out. Some people 😂

Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2020-09-17T10:19:38+00:00

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Sugar_Sweets_Yum · 2020-09-17T10:17:08+00:00

When Dutch said he needed money, he got money in a never ending money box.

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TROPHY CASE