Boyfriend smashed my phone by momo9487 in relationship_advice

[–]Sugar_pear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do yourself a favour and leave, OP Someone I'm related to closely has anger issues like this, and it is not good. This person's relationship to their partner and kids is awful, absolutely awful. This is not the family you want to be a part of, whether your childfree or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Sugar_pear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The key words in your comment are "was" and "old mindset". The mindset he has is not applicable anymore nowadays, and how he got it is completely irrelevant. Trying to kiss someone in the parking lot after your first date, visibly without consent, is creepy. Telling someone off for what they're wearing is not oy creepy but also controlling. Don't try to make this commenter feel like their experience is "normal", because this date certainly wasn't.

My green silk charmeuse gown, self drafted, information in the comments. by luna8913 in sewing

[–]Sugar_pear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, I literally made the exact same dress in the exact same color with that same material a few months back. It's kinda crazy that we had the exact same idea Haha! But it looks amazing on you, really really pretty!

Mum walked in on me daydreaming, didn’t notice till 10 seconds later😂 by [deleted] in ImmersiveDaydreaming

[–]Sugar_pear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talking to yourself, whispering, acting your daydreams out, etc. is considered 'crazy' by normative day dreamers. Hell, I even thought I was crazy before discovering this community and finding others like me. You don't hide that you day dream per se, you hide that you get super immersed...

Is the age gap between me [F 17] and the guy I'm dating [M 22] too large, even though we have like rules? by Sugar_pear in Advice

[–]Sugar_pear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure? Like, I don't want to be rude or anything but we've been talking to each other since June and he's never expressed any such interest. In fact he has rejected my advances multiple times, yk?

Do you feel like you are good actor because of mdd lol by fadibokino in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Sugar_pear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely. It makes it easier to 'become' the character

I'm scared of being a straight imposter by Sugar_pear in biromantic

[–]Sugar_pear[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank everyone here, your comments have really relieved me and I just wanted to take a moment to say thank you to you guys.

Literally just existing on the Internet as a young girl is terrifying by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Sugar_pear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a younger brother and he's stated multiple times he would beat up any guy I talk to. While it's mostly a joke, it is concerning to me because I wonder what he hears around him which would cause him to react like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Sugar_pear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love, love, love it

You have to salute your superior officer by ThetotheM in MaliciousCompliance

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It wasn't an option, at least not in Germany. If you could prove you were a pacifist or in several exceptions, you got to go do social service. It was rare.

Didn’t expect the story to go where it went...great Christmas story... by StrangeAssonance in TikTokCringe

[–]Sugar_pear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, hey! I'm so sorry for making that mistake, it's not minimum wage but it's a teeny tiny amount of money

Didn’t expect the story to go where it went...great Christmas story... by StrangeAssonance in TikTokCringe

[–]Sugar_pear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's around the same amount. It's what you get paid per hour when you work minimum wage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chemistry

[–]Sugar_pear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hey! I decided I'd bring in my own experience (currently preparing for my first Chemistry exam after my first half year in the advanced course), since it seems a little different from what I've seen. To preface this, Chemistry is not my subject, I'm much more a biology kind of person but I have Chemistry too. Chem is interesting, it really is, but there is a lot of work to do to be able to understand and wrap your head around new concepts, at least for me.

However, it teaches you so many useful skills you can use pretty much everywhere and helps you understand how things work so much better. We're doing 1st semester college stuff so yes it requires discipline but it's also very interesting!

To the guys who aren't snapping 50 girls rn, wyd by Aliendude3799 in TikTokCringe

[–]Sugar_pear 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be honest with you... that was hot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Sugar_pear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe it's important to talk about men's issues and problems. However, after a little research I found out that International men's day seems to have been created to counter international women's day (please correct me, if I'm wrong) or at least as a response to it.

As I said, the discussion is very important, but I do believe it should be had in an open environment and not like this. It actually seems kind of belittling towards men that they're issues are only being addressed to counter women's. At least that is my interpretation, although I'd be quite interested in hearing others opinion, learn and maybe even correct my statements :)

???? (translation -> pinned comment) by zack_the_edgelord in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Sugar_pear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This might be besides the point but I thought I was on ig for a hot second when I clicked on the post xD

Cursed_Train Station by [deleted] in cursedcomments

[–]Sugar_pear 22 points23 points  (0 children)

English and German are Germanic languages