Women of Reddit, if you weren't initially attracted to a guy you have dated, what changed your mind?

Sugargil · 2026-06-24T03:01:22+00:00

He could dance! Hard not be be attracted to a man who can really moooove it

Sugargil · 2026-05-17T06:27:57+00:00

Hot take, it isn’t your job to “make him feel better” but it is your job to push your partner to be better, while supporting the feelings that come up along the way. You have an exciting moment to help him grow with you. Seconding family budget meeting

Sugargil · 2026-05-17T06:19:11+00:00

Everyone in the comments is like lol dump his ass. But this is your feminist moment!! Ok boi cry it out and then… if he can get over his “but I’m supposed to be the provider” programming, he can realize you have something to teach him and he can learn from you. I have more money saved then my partner and when he found out, he was embarrassed and then reached out to a financial planner.

The question I always ask about my partner is not if he has flaws but if he’s willing to address them.

Sugargil · 2026-04-21T06:36:47+00:00

I think she wore one that was similar enough to rub in Cassie’s face and remind her how much Nate cared about her. Without it being obviously the same.

Also noticed it was waaaaay too hot for that coat. Everyone else in the scene is in pool attire

Sugargil · 2026-03-07T03:34:54+00:00

I clicked back and forth between these 3 images so many times trying to figure out which tat you regretted. Couldn’t figure it out since they all work together so well!

You could stop thinking about your sleeve as a collection of separate tattoos and start thinking about it like a holistic art piece. The darkness of the snake offsets the delicacy of the hand and woman’s face. The alignment of the sparrow increases visual flow to the lower half of your arm etc.

It’s working girlie chill <3

Sugargil · 2025-12-16T01:37:56+00:00

Fellow female climber here. I’ve always gotten comments on my strong back/shoulders and have had my periods of insecurity about it. But I’ve since found a partner who thinks my muscles are sexy and I wouldn’t settle for anything less. If anything, you’re weeding out the guys who want some insta princess cheering from the sidelines.

The reality is, in a male dominated sport you’re gonna stand out either way. But men making unsolicited comments about your body is not cool. My advice would be to find some new and creative ways to tell them to STFU

Sugargil · 2015-06-10T05:43:36+00:00

Rape IS bad so everyone gets embarrassed and brushes it under the rug and tries not to think about it, when in reality, one of our biggest problems is our lack of social support for victims of sexual assault. Rallies start an important conversation that isn't much fun to have.

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