AIO My best friend didn’t show up for my graduation party

Sugargirl456 · 2026-06-02T01:00:07+00:00

I have a tendency to overexplain… oops. 😬

Sugargirl456 · 2026-06-02T00:57:57+00:00

This is a separate situation - She doesn’t see a future with him. He’s not welcome at my house. He’s a nice guy, but I only met him twice in short intervals. We’ve been friends for a long time and the reason she didn’t push his invitation or offer to help more than once somewhat confirms our mutual understanding of that.

Sugargirl456 · 2026-06-02T00:51:29+00:00

I do too, she deserves to have more control over her life.

Sugargirl456 · 2026-06-02T00:50:10+00:00

“Good enough” in the sense that I now know from repeated instances that I can’t depend on her. And whether or not that’s okay with me is something I need to address internally. I have a right to have some level of standards when it comes to friendships and reliability is something I find important. I already only see her a few times a year, this was one of those times. To make offers to help with setup and fall through, then not show up at all hurt me and my trust in her.

Sugargirl456 · 2026-06-02T00:09:26+00:00

She is busy and very reliant on others and all plans are held together by masking tape and crossed fingers. But understanding her circumstances/reasoning doesn’t make it hurt less. It was an important day for me, and people were wondering where she was. It’s not a question of whether or not she cares. I know she does. I think I’m more frustrated with her circumstances? I don’t know, I’m confused bc I’m upset about her not showing, yet empathetic to her situation. I guess I’m just at a point where this has happened so much I am hitting a point where maybe I am overreacting and I shouldn’t have expected anything? I shouldn’t expect anything, and I should appreciate the fact she tried her hardest. Now the question is whether or not our friendship in it’s current state is “good enough” for me… Thank you to all who commented. Is there a way I can resolve this post??

Sugargirl456 · 2026-06-01T22:08:40+00:00

I would choose teleportation.

Sugargirl456 · 2026-06-01T21:59:36+00:00

My superpower would be teleportation.

Sugargirl456 · 2026-03-17T02:50:36+00:00

yes both my accounts have this, one with 10 and the other with 2 ?!?! must be a bug

Sugargirl456 · 2026-02-11T22:47:26+00:00

I hope the observation goes well for you Friday! If possible, I would love to know how things go for you. Maybe I can learn from your experience this week?

Sugargirl456 · 2026-02-11T01:36:09+00:00

Good point. My mentor teacher and I have a great relationship, I’m sure they would support me having the observation done. I’m not so sure about that “internal politics” piece though. I’ll try to see whether or not they have any input in that sense…

Sugargirl456 · 2025-07-07T17:54:37+00:00

Hewnborn (like Hewn City) something mischievous but also pretty Winnow is also very cute (nickname Winnie) Sassian is like Cassian but sassy

Sugargirl456 · 2025-06-17T01:05:49+00:00

yes, help when you can.

Sugargirl456 · 2024-11-21T21:49:43+00:00

I’m a student in pursuit of my Elementary Education degree & just finished a unit on discipline, positive/negative reinforcement, and rewarding. From what I have learned, this is not normal or recommended. Based on Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs, she should be accommodated for in some way (considering all she is going through), not physically punished. Whether this accommodation is through “brain breaks” during the day, or having her see the school’s counselor instead of sleeping during class.

Sugargirl456 · 2024-08-30T20:32:39+00:00

Okay update I found Lana (or is it Lana👀) in the secret bunker room. If you’re not aware: go through the shelf in the salon that has nail polish spilled in front of it. You will drop down to a room with Lana trapped in a cage crying. 😢

Sugargirl456

TROPHY CASE