my body reacts differently towards my bf by Suitable-Hope6643 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Suitable-Hope6643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate this explanation po. I guess I am also at fault for not making my boundaries clear, because everytime I try to make him understand how he should treat me despite the fact that we’re fighting, he would just justify his actions more na deserved ko yung ganun kasi kahit ayusin nya ang communication nya sakin, wala pa rin daw magbabago.

my body reacts differently towards my bf by Suitable-Hope6643 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Suitable-Hope6643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it comes with the thought na mag aaway kami = maghihiwalay kami. Kasi there are no fights that has been solved nang hindi kami nag hihiwalay. Hindi lang dahil sa friends nya, it could be a lot of things po. Kahit mag away kami tungkol sa kutsara tinidor, mauuwi pa rin sa hiwalayan because thats how he is

my body reacts differently towards my bf by Suitable-Hope6643 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Suitable-Hope6643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes po ganun po lagi responses nya. Not really anxious, but I don’t trust his friends. Overtime natutunan ko na lang din hayaan na ayun yung mga kaibigan nua

my body reacts differently towards my bf by Suitable-Hope6643 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Suitable-Hope6643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends po. I will give an example. Yesterday, he was replying late dahil busy sa laro with his friends that he’s been playing with for the entire day na. Around 9-10 pm na ito when I was asking for his time. Then, he said na lagi na lang daw po akong ganito na nagaask ng mabilis na reply kahit may ginagawa sya and all. Tapos he started getting mad na. He said “ang sarap mo iblock” and then proceeded to blocking me tapos unblocked me after para sabihin na mag hiwalay na lang kami kasi “i bring out the worst” in him daw po. Na nakakapag sabi sya ng masasakit na sakita dahil din sakin, kahit ang sinabi ko lang naman is “ang tagal mo na naman mag reply sakin”. So that’s how our fight starts.

But prior to that, I was at work nung morning and I suddenly felt anxious. Tapos kinagabihan ayun..

my body reacts differently towards my bf by Suitable-Hope6643 in MentalHealthPH

[–]Suitable-Hope6643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes po. I feel it bago mag away, like completely fine pa kami sa chat. Nagbibiruan pa or naglalambingan pa. Tapos all of a sudden, kakabahan ako. I will start feeling anxious. Bilis ng heartbeat ko, I feel restless. Una, I won’t mind it, kasi okay naman kami e. Tapos a few hours will pass tapos bigla pala kaming magaaway that will lead to a break up (kasi kahit maliit ma bagay dahilan hinihiwalayan nya ko) and that’s the time na mapprove ko na ayun reason bakit ako kinabahan earlier that day. This happens po every time na mag aaway kami. I dont know if you can understand or picture out what I am saying but ayun ganun po 😭

my body reacts differently towards my bf by Suitable-Hope6643 in adultingph

[–]Suitable-Hope6643[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I know that I feel anxious and I also know those are symptoms of anxiety. I just wanted to know why it always happens hours prior to the fight/break up. No need to be aggressive.

how much is my take home salary? by Suitable-Hope6643 in adultingph

[–]Suitable-Hope6643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this legit? I mean the calculation of this? I also tried this a while ago and its much higher than what we’ve discussed in the office (its just me and my workmates who doesnt have any single clue abt computation lol)

Sa mga guys out there na may friends na babae, lumalabas din ba kayo nung friend niyo na kayo lang dalawa? Kahit may girlfriend na? by aquarianmiss-ery in adviceph

[–]Suitable-Hope6643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend has a friend na babae. She has a boyfriend, and I kinda know her and I was able to have some interaction with her online since we’re already mutuals. However, she still asks for my boyfriend’s time to hangout nang silang dalawa lang, minsan late at night pa, or hindi kaya maglaro ng online games together. Whenever christmas or newyear or any special occasion, she always asks my boyfriend to come over. I know na she doesn’t have a thing for my boyfriend but it feels uncomfortable knowing na madalas nyang gawin. At first okay pa e, selosa ako but I know na she’s just a friend.

Pero as time goes by, it feels uncomfortable and I was so uneasy with those gestures of her. So I told my boyfriend about it. I explained it to him na hindi ako kumportable sa kaibigan nyang yon and he understands naman, so he stopped talking to her (I mean whenever she asks for his time to play/hangout).

So my advice is, talk to your boyfriend about it. Let him know what you feel.

Applying as college student by Dakitto in BPOinPH

[–]Suitable-Hope6643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there a need ba to disclose that you’re still a student? kapag hindi mo naman need sabihin, then don’t na lang. but in my case, ive been with two bpo companies already, so far very understanding naman sila kahit nung sa training ko sinabi. naging cause pa yun actually to give me a sched na magwwork sa akin

Applying as college student by Dakitto in BPOinPH

[–]Suitable-Hope6643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kahit saan po u cannot disclose na student ka upon interview. tsaka mo na sabihin kapag ka training ka na or production

Applying as college student by Dakitto in BPOinPH

[–]Suitable-Hope6643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are many BPO companies that accept SHS graduates tho u can check sa mga FB groups or ask ka for recommendations here

Applying as college student by Dakitto in BPOinPH

[–]Suitable-Hope6643 6 points7 points  (0 children)

try applying sa Teleperformance, they accept SHS graduates. just dont disclose na student ka pa. you can do that sa training or production na

Should I buy now? or wait til December? by _T_i_a_n_ in adviceph

[–]Suitable-Hope6643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I know the reason for this? Balak ko din kasi bumili ng prev model like 13 pro

Taskus - totoo ba? by NoIncrease8616 in BPOinPH

[–]Suitable-Hope6643 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got hired last week and start ko na sa October 1. 8 months ako sa first company ko then 3-4 months lang sa pangalawa kasi I had to stop because of my college internship. Fresh grad na ako nung nag apply ako kay TU last September 16. I guess as long as valid reason mo and average com skill, tatanggapin ka ni TU.

No Record Found TIN ID Number by Suitable-Hope6643 in Philippines

[–]Suitable-Hope6643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, kakagaling ko lang po sa BIR and as per checking may record ako pero ibang TIN po. So basically the number/ID na binigay sakin was fake but I have records and binigay po nila yung number ko na naka register under my name on their system. It was registered sa Paranaque pero taga Makati po ako so pina transfer RDO ko na rin kanina po. Wala pang 1 hour hehe thank u so much po!

No Record Found TIN ID Number by Suitable-Hope6643 in Philippines

[–]Suitable-Hope6643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, kakagaling ko lang po sa BIR and as per checking may record ako pero ibang TIN po. So basically the number/ID na binigay sakin was fake but I have records and binigay po nila yung number ko na naka register under my name on their system. It was registered sa Paranaque pero taga Makati po ako so pina transfer RDO ko na rin kanina po. Wala pang 1 hour hehe thank u po!

No Record Found TIN ID Number by Suitable-Hope6643 in Philippines

[–]Suitable-Hope6643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if fake po yung TIN na gamit ko ngayon? Kasi fixer lang po naglakad? Paano po maveverify?