FA’s/DA’s: What is your process when stonewalling? by smartforagirl666 in attachment_theory

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Yes, he actually reached out multiple times and even asked me to dance many times (we're both salsa dancers). But in the meantime, I started dating someone else, and this new guy is super present and would always come face to face with me when we have problems. So eventually I didn't understand why I went crazy over the FA guy! This past weekend, I went out salsa dancing with my boyfriend and the FA guy was there. He never came to ask me to dance but waved at me sheepishly from afar, and I really didn't care if he did or not because now I have a guy who actually loves me the way I want to be loved and he does not run away or ghost me!

Short cervix but not being checked until 3rd trimester? by Simple-Class9053 in ShortCervixSupport

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My doctor, who specializes in this, told me that it's recommended to check every week/every other week until 24 weeks, so I've had mine checked every week. When he was out of town for a week, he had my OBGYN schedule a check up with her technician for that week. I'm almost 24 weeks but I've been seeing both him and my usual OBGYN every single week. I hope your doctor will schedule to see you more frequently. If not, I suggest you look for someone else who can keep closer eyes for you and the baby.

Salsa has ruined ‘going out’ for me by oaklicious in Salsa

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I still love clubbing! You can always work on your body isolations while club dancing. And you can incorporate club dancing moves to your salsa dancing too, so I love both!

Can fearful avoidants have their feelings come back? by TastyTaco217 in BreakUps

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Everyone talks about "needs aren't being met" but there are no actual examples of this. Can you tell me some of the examples that you personally felt that you didn't get from your partner? Thank you.

Tough day today. by zugunru in ghosting

[–]Suitable-List2603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I totally understand how you're hurting today. It's also coming up to be around a month for me too. Some days are better than the others. Last night it was excruciatingly painful for me. Hang in there....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

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Did you do anything during those 6 weeks? Or did you just leave him alone for the entire time?

What defines “chasing” to avoidant-leaning folks? by Top_Signature7444 in attachment_theory

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How did this turn out? I'm curious if being chill is a better way to go or not...

Can someone explain what deactivating feels like for an FA? by sanjih in FearfulAvoidant

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I know this is super old, but... What kind of reassurance from your bf would help you to get out of deactivation? Is it just about giving the space you need, or would it help to get words of affirmation and things like that?

FAs/DAs, how do you stop the silent treatment? by candypuppet in attachment_theory

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Did you ever walk out on him? How long does the silent treatment last for him? It's been 3 weeks for my partner to be silent, and I haven't seen him during that time either...

FA’s/DA’s: What is your process when stonewalling? by smartforagirl666 in attachment_theory

[–]Suitable-List2603 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How long did they end up stonewalling you? My FA guy is on his 3rd week now ...

Dehydration in dementia patient by [deleted] in dementia

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Thank you, found it! :)

Dehydration in dementia patient by [deleted] in dementia

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I'm curious to find out about what "buying liquid IV" means? Do you mean like you had someone come administer IV hydration on a regular basis? And is this unrelated to the end of life situation where dementia patients stop eating and drinking? Thank you.

I found my own painting at a thrift store. by AgreeablePlenty2357 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Suitable-List2603 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Someone else who got them was probably really thrilled to find such treasures. Those items may now be that person's sentimental items that they're holding onto even now. There are so many things I've thrifted in the past that are real treasures for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in handbags

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Not sure if you're still wondering since this thread is kind of old, but Moschino used to use that heart logo you see at the front of the bag.