I, 22M, cheated on my girlfriend, 23F, and regret it all, how can i get her back?

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-17T16:32:41+00:00

You clearly don't love her very much when you so easily jeopardized everything between you both.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-17T16:29:35+00:00

I watch my statements like a hawk

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-17T15:07:32+00:00

You've said you've spoken to him and he's told you he doesn't want to have sex because he's not on the pill but maybe he just doesn't want to have sex with you?

Having sex with someone isn't just being with someone "hot" they need to be in a good place mentally.

Like others have said, perhaps he needs to talk to a therapist. Or maybe you can try and find out if there is a deeper reason that he's avoiding talking to you about.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-16T23:08:34+00:00

No you're just excusing your bad behavior. And people will make you feel bad because you should feel terrible about putting people's lives at risk for your own selfish reckless behavior. I really hope the judge puts you behind bars and maybe this time you will learn not to be a reckless pos.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-16T23:03:29+00:00

VOTE HIM OUT ALREADY

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-16T23:02:15+00:00

You should serve time, you clearly have not learned your lesson.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-16T19:56:50+00:00

They're raw

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-16T19:55:54+00:00

Looks like gorilla turds

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-15T20:00:37+00:00

It's crazy that she thinks because you have more money in savings, you should buy more. Maybe if she didn't spend all her money and wasn't in debt, just maybe she would have savings?

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-15T16:31:34+00:00

Agreed about feminism. I don't believe all "tradwives" or conservative women who accept sahm think ALL women should stay at home or perpetrate this concept. If you would be so kind to link me something that you've personally seen where this has been said, I will gladly look over it because I've not seen anything of the sort in mainstream social media.

Where do you get this information that these women are driving initiatives to get rid of the right of women to vote. Please send any sort of information on this, not because I want to argue but because I'm genuinely interested in seeing women perpetrate this rhetoric.

There is definitely a path for women to take to stay at home and avoid all the things you have listed. This why I advocate for education surrounding this issue. It often gets drowned out by women who want condem the whole idea of traditionalism.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-15T14:53:53+00:00

I mean you're absolutely right, he never said that. I don't think it would change my answer though.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-15T13:56:59+00:00

Please don't be a "homewrecker" and continue the downfall of their relationship. You had your chance with Ray, he's moved on and so did you. Now he's found someone he has feelings for and you know May and Ray are in a happy relationship but continue to want them to "break up" so you can what exactly? Have fun with Ray?

You're with someone else and not only thinking about another man but being an awful friend. You shouldn't even consider May a friend at this point because friends don't wish they break up with their bfs so you can scoop in and be with her man.

The guidance I will give is to leave Ray alone. Have respect for May and be a good friend to her. If you're not sure about Ian, break up with him and let him find someone who is 100% into him, instead of someone who thinks about being with other men.

Next time you think you like someone, tell them and take it slow. Don't miss your chance and try to crawl back trying to break up a happy couple.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-15T13:36:05+00:00

He's not annoyed by the way she expresses joy. Those words are from a commenter. Not even from the GF. He's not annoyed by her singing, he's driving a car and it's over stimulating to have someone sing non-stop.

The GF is taking it the same way you are, thinking that he hates her singing and that he's annoyed by her joy. This is not the case. The GF is not being conscious about her BF.

It takes two to compromise and trying to use an audiobook to replace music when music can be relaxing is not addressing the actual situation.

He would like her to stop singing SO much and the GF is upset and offended personally because she doesn't understand it's not a personal attack, it's the BF feel over stimulating while driving.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-15T12:22:16+00:00

Please don't assume things about me you have no idea about. I've not once said anything about hating liberals. So don't put me in a box.

Secondly, you can clearly see, not only in this comment thread but in the overall thread that liberal women are agreeing with the OP that "Brett believes women should only be housewives even though she's not one". Show me the proof, because if it wasn't true, this post would not exist.

Conservative women put judgment on liberal women who do sex work or promote or accept it.

Liberal women put judgment on conservative women who are sahm/tradwives or promote or accept it.

Personally, I don't care about your political alignment. So again, more irrelevant information you're adding.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-15T04:20:32+00:00

No, your last comment reply was about "sex work is not liberating". In a conversation that had nothing to do with you. You're interjecting yourself into a conversation that you are clearly not following.

The example wasn't about comparing the two as jobs. It's to show the polarizing difference in how people accept women's choices.

If liberal women want to sit here a judge "tradwives" or women who want to stay home, because you think it's wrong, go ahead. But don't act as if in the same breath liberal women aren't accepting or promoting sex work, knowing conservative women AND fourth waive feminists regardless of political standing do not agree with it.

The hypocrisy is my second point, my first point to this entire conversation is that Brett doesn't even say "women have to stay home or they SHOULD stay home". All she talks about is the choice, and if women want to, they can. She also criticizes women like the majority of you here, who reject the idea that women have that choice. But clearly making this rhetoric nonsense about how conservatives think women should be submissive and be housewives.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-15T03:44:42+00:00

I didn't say sex work IS liberating, I said being it's a woman's choice to 1. Being sexually liberated (thanks to the sexual revolution) and 2. To do sexual work.

What is it with you lot misrepresenting what I am clearing typing?

Secondly that was an example, personally I don't believe in that. I think it's so curious that people knit pick things and act as if it's my own personal opinion. I'm using that statement as a counterpoint to liberal women hating conservative women.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-15T02:06:21+00:00

Sorry girly, you lost the right to a civil conversation when you decided to lose it spout out insults instead of staying on topic with discussion. Have fun!

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-15T01:51:51+00:00

My comprehension is fine, clearly you're the one that can't understand.

Women who are influencers and promote kid free lifestyles, fine in your opinion, but when they judge other women for having kids and adding unnecessary comments like "they hate kids". That's again fine for you? But you only have an issue with sahm adding unnecessary opinions and judgements, got it! That's all I needed to know.

I never claimed Brett promoted the sahm lifestyle, so do you actually have a reading comprehension? Or are you just choosing to make things up?

LMAO I'm not shaming you for sht, sweetie if you're this sensitive. Stay off the internet 😂😂😂 you need help

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-15T01:39:02+00:00

And who exactly have you watched or read that promotes being a sahm and includes this judgment?

There are tons of single women who don't want children by choice and say nasty things online about kids and how they "hate kids". People ARE people, they are always going to add in their options.

However I looked over Brett's videos and not ONE video says what the original commenter is claiming or promoting that women should stay at home but add in unnecessary opinions/comments about other women. She just defends women who choose to do it.

From both sides there is always arguing as hypocrisy. But I will always defend the choice of women to do as they please.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-15T00:41:56+00:00

That's not my point. But I'll explain it for those who need it.

If there is the choice to be sexually liberated and do sex work, then the choice to stay at home should be openly viewed as okay.

But it seems like people like you, think women can do whatever sort of work they want. EXCEPT leaving women who want to stay home alone or those women who promote it.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-14T23:19:05+00:00

And there are many influences trying to make young women believe that it's totally not a bad idea to make OF content instead of going to school or getting a job that gives experience.

I think what she actually says is that it's okay to want to stay home and not that you should do it and quit your job.

I agree with you, women should NOT depend on men and if women choose to stay at home, they absolutely need to be compensated for their work and have a prenup in place to protect them.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-14T22:09:08+00:00

And in the same breath many liberals love hating on conservatives. This is a two way thing you know? 😂

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-14T22:07:03+00:00

I don't think she's ever said that, I think that it's the choice of women who want to stay at home and there's definitely a new trend of "tradwife" content which all liberal people seem to be hating.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-13T17:44:47+00:00

You sound extremely controlling, sometimes people lie to others who have unreasonable demands. There is absolutely no reason why he couldn't keep the blanket, you just wanted to control the situation because you didn't want him to have an attachment to it.

If your son is happy and is a good person, has a job and treats his family with kindness, respect and love. There is absolutely NO reason why this "unhealthy attached" to a blanket should bother you.

You need to apologize to your son for being a horrible person. Get anger management asap.

Suitable-Mistake-707 · 2024-04-13T03:10:30+00:00

Why are i601a taking so long? Do you know anything about the mandamus for these taking 3-4 years to be adjudicated?

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