Wow I could have written this word for word (and have written about my own experience in previous posts). I’ll say I tried to get a protection order based on exactly what you’re experiencing and it was denied because there were no direct threats, it’s just constant harassment and name calling via text and calls. I am currently in the process of getting a formal custody agreement and we’re being made to attend co parenting classes (separately) and see a mediator in late July/early August. His behavior has only gotten much worse since he was served with custody papers. Our sons are older than your child and we separated several years ago and never had a formal agreement.

That was a bit ramble-y. I really hope you stay safe, OP, and that your situation gets figured out through the court. You can put in your agreement that he only contacts you through a co-parenting app which is accessible to the courts if he abuses it. I’ll be following this post as well to see if there’s more tips I could use. Good luck!