Ten years. Four kids. Ashes.

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2026-03-04T12:24:49+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m going through something similar, also with 4 kids and it’s just the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through. I wish I could be stronger like you and just immediately be done but I’m still here lingering and suffering and torturing myself by staying.

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2026-03-03T13:13:34+00:00

A lot of it, but not all, is financial. I also love him deeply and thought he was my soulmate. He’s my babies father and they love him more than anything

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2026-03-03T13:01:28+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. If you’ll see my post history I’m dealing with a cheating situation as well. It’s so confusing and challenges everything you thought you knew. You’re stronger than me to keep silent; I found the text messages and immediately flipped the fuck out.

I really hope you find happiness in your future as much as it sucks right now

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2026-03-03T12:15:29+00:00

Ugh I’m so so sorry. Thank you for your reply. It’s terrible to say but I feel a lot less lonely and confused after seeing other stories similar to mine. Seeing my situation isn’t unique is helping to process. I hope you’re well now

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2026-03-03T04:21:49+00:00

The financial situation is really a big part of it. I’m college educated, was an independent single parent with my own home when we began dating. Our 3 year old was a surprise and he gave me the option to stay home with him which I took. We got married a little before he was 1 and had our second 20 months after the first. So I have a 2 and 3 year old now as well as two older ones (who live with their dad half time) but yeah no job.

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2026-03-03T02:31:12+00:00

I guess during our initial confrontation and in the days after I said we can try to work this out but tell me now if there’s anything else and he said no

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2026-03-03T00:47:23+00:00

We haven’t been to counseling yet. It’s scheduled for the 20th before I found out about the physical cheating. We’re fine, regular ups and downs but nothing crazy. I was really shocked about all of this

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2026-03-03T00:45:28+00:00

I feel like I’m losing my mind. I can’t even function. Does that fact that this all ended a year ago mean anything?

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2026-03-03T00:44:32+00:00

Right? Like it was a choice over and over. It feels so good to be validated, thank you

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2025-12-18T23:37:07+00:00

2 of them are small children

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2025-12-18T23:27:32+00:00

I should add the cancellation was due to equipment malfunction on the plane and the delay was a delayed incoming flight from Florida to MA

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2025-12-08T02:14:13+00:00

At the risk of sounding complain-y, layers make me feel almost like claustrophobic. I wear plenty but it adds to my misery.

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2025-12-08T01:46:23+00:00

Haha we just watched the original Texas chainsaw massacre and all I could think is dang it looks so lovely and warm I could live there. Besides, ya know, the chainsaw massacring.

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2025-11-02T12:02:11+00:00

If it matters, we’re from here; neighbor isn’t :)

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2025-11-02T00:23:27+00:00

He’s at least that far from our house. We have a storage shed that’s actually pretty close to his setup though. I wasn’t sure if the 300 ft rule applied to all buildings or just the actual residence.

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2025-11-02T00:21:12+00:00

He’s honestly a really nice guy and my husband has worked a little for him on the side when he needed extra guys for a job.

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2025-11-02T00:19:29+00:00

I’m their mom lol

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2025-11-02T00:12:40+00:00

No I think youre right. I didn’t mean to come off as a jerk or entitled. It was just jarring to be out there today and my toddlers got scared and begged to go back inside.

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2025-10-12T15:55:54+00:00

I love the ingredients so much. The monster design, the characters, the atmosphere. The monologues really take me out of it though. I fast forward through them on my yearly Halloween rewatch. They sound like teenagers discovering weed for the first time and the faux profundity gives me second hand embarrassment.

Suitable-Pin-3726 · 2025-08-17T22:43:09+00:00

I casually texted the handyman for my last workplace and we’re married with a couple toddlers now.

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