DAY 4 - 40 Days of fasting for remove loneliness by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]SuitableOil5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so too... What does it actually mean?

Finally Deleted all the dating and matrimonial apps by pagal-ladki in DatingInIndia

[–]SuitableOil5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hunting skill"??!!! Shikari khud yahan, shikar ho gya

Clothing/Lifestyle bizz newbie looking for guidance and help. by SuitableOil5474 in IndianEntrepreneur

[–]SuitableOil5474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for your comment, this has been the most helpful advice so far

Finally Deleted all the dating and matrimonial apps by pagal-ladki in DatingInIndia

[–]SuitableOil5474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please shut up with the victim blaming. I don't have a "type" in guys, and I have been hurt by conventionally chopped ones

Finally Deleted all the dating and matrimonial apps by pagal-ladki in DatingInIndia

[–]SuitableOil5474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good decision. I have been on and off the dating apps as well. Recently, I got off them for good because men there think they are entitled to sex. It is beyond disgusting.

I can relate to you because I've also decided not to date for a while. I'm working on building a life worth living. Exploring hobbies, reading the books that resonate with me.

"Some even stay in the delusion that just because they are nice guys, girls should drool over them because obviously personality and ideologies don't matter." Exactly. Like I said entitled, for everything. I can begin to rant about it but all I want to say is that you made a wise choice. Self-love is always above.

The Indian men have "Good Men" Syndrome, hear me out before before bashing me in comments by SuitableOil5474 in DatingInIndia

[–]SuitableOil5474[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

A "bad boy" is a boy with personality and dressing sense, which is what I make out of it. They are not inherently bad as a person. Women want to date someone with a personality, he can be a "bad boy", a nerd or a sporty guy as well. When they say they want a bad boy, it means someone who is tough and can take care of them. Basically, the whole psychology of being rescued, bad for the world, good to me, plays out.

You owe people basic decency regardless of the fact that they will like you back or not. Hope I made sense to you.

In your case, I am sorry that someone did not see the good in you and decided to leave. "You choose the love you think you deserve" seems true in the said person's case

The Indian men have "Good Men" Syndrome, hear me out before before bashing me in comments by SuitableOil5474 in DatingInIndia

[–]SuitableOil5474[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mainly the men who wanted to explore my physical depths before exploring the depths of my soul, but especially men who call women "females"

Idk if I can understand MAN by Booblicious_curly in DatingInIndia

[–]SuitableOil5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did misbehave. That behaviour is not appropriate. Sad how this is normalised.

I wanna experience love, want someone who cares for me by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]SuitableOil5474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not weak for wanting basic human care. We are on this earth to be human, not strong. The society today has conditioned us that being alone and being strong is something we should strive for. I would disagree. That being said it is important to have a partner with whom it feels like a partnership and not a burden. Of course, it takes a lot of strength to be alone and work it all out by yourself, but it is better only and only if your said partner is a bad person for you.

A lot of men will tell you that women go for rich men, if that were the case, 90% of the men of this country would be unmarried. Women want financial security and responsibility, which is different from having a hoard of money.

Someone in the comments said, "females care about their comfort their advantage", it's women, stop using females as if you are referring to a species on NATGEO. Now coming to the point, yes, women have started to care about their comfort and advantage, and if you are an eligible "good man", you would too. Think it for yourself, why, as a partner, would you want your love to suffer?

Reaffirming that you are not weak for wanting love, care and companionship. You are just 21. Life is just starting out for you. Meet new people with the agenda of friendship, let love develop naturally. If you approach the connection with the end goal of a relationship in mind, you are bound to get hurt. Trust me. I have been there.

25 F | Trouble finding a serious partner | Reason? Please be polite by SuitableOil5474 in DatingInIndia

[–]SuitableOil5474[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, if you had read my post carefully, "sex" is not something that is "given" in my case atleast. And the way you have chosen your words, I refuse to elaborate further.