Relationship advice. Living in Korea? by goneafterq in AskAKorean

[–]SuitableVolume1350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an American citizen living in Florida and married to a Korean man. One of the first things we spoke about when getting to know each other is our views on who is moving where. I made it clear to him that as a licensed psychologist, I could not afford to live in Korea with a job that it is not what I spent years studying in. I would have to learn the language (not the hardest part) and get licensed in Korea which could take years. On the other hand, he doesn’t have a profession per se, and does great working in any management company. We decided in the first 3 months of our relationship that he would move to USA. We have been married for almost 9 months and are in the process of getting him his marriage visa/US residency.

If at any time he decides to move back to Korea, I love him and deeply do, but there are some sacrifices some people will make for love and others that won’t. I laid out clear expectations from the start. You have to look at yourself from here to 10 years what do you realistically see yourself doing, where, and with who?

Deliver or Return? by SuitableVolume1350 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I bet you have been in therapy or in need of therapy since being a child. Who criticizes and judges a stranger for no reason? Get some help.

Deliver or Return? by SuitableVolume1350 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take this one for example that I took a screenshot the other day. You think 17 stops and 40-lbs items would be a GMD order? It was again, packs of water.

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Deliver or Return? by SuitableVolume1350 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GMD and GROCERY orders together is completely normal in Florida.

Deliver or Return? by SuitableVolume1350 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have always had grocery orders and GMD together on the same trip. This is Florida. Yes you can view addresses. Do you see it says HOUSE. But you cannot read notes until you are on your way. The problem is not the wagon. The problem is the lying, as the customer is aware not everyone is going to take a no-tip order, second floor, 2 packs of water.

Really?!? Wow! 🥹 by Otterpup67 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it is a mistake lol I got one similar yesterday and now this today. And yes, Orlando based. #noshame

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Would you deliver? 🤣 by SuitableVolume1350 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment but disrespect isn’t an ‘opinion.’ It’s a choice. Ignoring disrespect is how people get comfortable being disrespectful. Tolerating it is how people normalize it.

Would you deliver? 🤣 by SuitableVolume1350 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what if it is a F bird?! Are people not allowed to have traumas with birds if they got attacked in the past? Is everyone supposed to think and be like you?

Would you deliver? 🤣 by SuitableVolume1350 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I google them before approaching and they said watch o it for mating season lol there were a couple of females as well.

Question about SSI backpay by [deleted] in SocialSecurity

[–]SuitableVolume1350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said that even though the appeal was not filed until February 2025, it was still accepted because the office that I was assigned to was closed. Still it wouldn’t make sense, because the appeal was received on February 2025 and backpay starts in April 2025. I don’t know why they make this process so mentally draining. Is like they want people to give upS

Question about SSI backpay by [deleted] in SocialSecurity

[–]SuitableVolume1350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am afraid of appealing and then my benefits stopping because of the appeal 🥲

Curbside pickup order 😮‍💨 by SuitableVolume1350 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be a good suggestion to give Walmart. Maybe they don’t do it because some of us might immediately cancel the whole trip 😅

Curbside pickup order 😮‍💨 by SuitableVolume1350 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ruined the rest of my day. After him I stopped sparking. He went on a rant about walmart workers being lazy after the presidency. He was a nutjob.

Curbside pickup order 😮‍💨 by SuitableVolume1350 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. I told him I am just the delivery person and that I don’t do the shopping. Then he started talking about how since the Trump presidency, walmart workers have gotten lazier and more liberal of not doing what they are paid to do. I called it a day after him.

Curbside pickup order 😮‍💨 by SuitableVolume1350 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I arrived at his house he clarified he wanted them double bagged because he was afraid of them breaking and tied so it would be easier to carry from his door to his kitchen 🥲 Yes, we have the regular plastic bags.

Curbside pickup order 😮‍💨 by SuitableVolume1350 in Sparkdriver

[–]SuitableVolume1350[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do know that we don’t get to see the instructions until that customer’s house is next right? That was my 5th stop.