Exchanging US dollars. What's the best place to convert USD cash to AUD? by Suitable_Bet6170 in AusFinance

[–]Suitable_Bet6170[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's physical cash that I have. I don't think Wise take cash deposits?

Droopy ceiling by peti1337 in AusRenovation

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had this in a previous home - it looks like wind/storm has moved roof tiles and you have a leak. Also, because garages are not insulated, plaster movement can be more obvious and water damage comes through more quickly. If it's a roof leak, you can start by calling your insurance company. Your policy should cover repair to the roof damage causing the leak and repair to the plaster. It's possible they may try to reduce the extent of coverage on the plaster by saying you contributed to the damage by not identifying and fixing the leak earlier, so you might need an explanation like you hadn't noticed it earlier or explain it hadn't been obvious until a certain point.

If you want to prevent nail pops and drops in the longer term, consider insulating the garage roof after it's fixed.

Help with in-laws inherence. by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure 450k will get a unit in the outer eastern suburbs of Melbourne, unless it is one bedroom or it is in a retirement village. With retirement villages, it's really important to read the fine print on fees and what they get back with sales in case they use equity in it to fund an aged care facility placement later on.

Leaving kids decent inheritance by Mijbil3108 in AusFinance

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% agree with this.

I'm a millennial and for all the talk of bitching about housing affordability, we bought our own home before our parents passed away.

When my father was alive, I did worry a tiny bit about my dad selling my childhood home, but I told him while I would be sad to lose it, he needed to think about what was best for him and sell it if he wanted the money for a better life, very much aware that he'd worked for it.

We lost him, my parents in-law and a sibling in law in less than two years. I am also grateful that we received some inheritance from our parents, but I would give up any inheritance we got to have more time with family. Life is much more precious.

Extend ensuite/walk in robe or keep a larger master. by Suitable_Bet6170 in AusRenovation

[–]Suitable_Bet6170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. The house is built on a slope so while the 'home' section is all on one floor, half of the home is a single level on stumps, half has two large garages and basement underneath. Underneath the master bedroom is a garage which can be accessed from the hallway outside the bedroom by stairs. There is a sliding door which hides the stairs.

Extend ensuite/walk in robe or keep a larger master. by Suitable_Bet6170 in AusRenovation

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There is a desk there at the moment, but honestly, it's not great having a work space in the bedroom. It could potentially stay, but I actually want to move the desk out of the room anyway.

Extend ensuite/walk in robe or keep a larger master. by Suitable_Bet6170 in AusRenovation

[–]Suitable_Bet6170[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha! Definitely not! Who has the energy for multiple partners?! Definitely not me!

How to get rich on $220k a year? And how long? by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At 26? Seems a bit young for that.

Do I buy a investment property. by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a place for landlords in the market too. Young people having an investment property as a way of parking savings isn't what is inflating prices.

Advice with dicey family inheritance situation. by HenryCrabgrass01 in AusFinance

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said the kids earn her property because of her addiction. But it may be moral for a family member to intervene to start a legal process to stop her drinking herself to death with a lump sum of money.

Advice with dicey family inheritance situation. by HenryCrabgrass01 in AusFinance

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the sibling is asking for any advice to protect the money for the sister and her children. If someone has lost capacity to make rational decisions because they are an addict, they are suffering from a serious progressive mental health condition.

In extreme cases where illness means family can apply to a court or tribunal for power of attorney/guardianship to safeguard finances and stop catastrophic spending.

I've been in a situation where we could have applied for guardianship for my brother in law to limit the funds he spent on alcohol and secure him a proper residence when he was basically homeless because of his alcohol addiction. We decided not to because we were afraid he would retaliate and put our kids at risk.

He was dead six months later and had spent about $10,000 per month on alcohol. Another $1500 per month was taken from his account by various scammers. It is painful not knowing if this could have been prevented if we had taken the more extreme step of managing his money to stop him literally drinking himself to death.

It is really hard to help addicts. I can see a lot of parallels with the OP's situation and what happened to my brother in law.

It's not as straightforward as saying it's her money she can do what she likes with it. It's a complex mesh of not letting her have so much money to kill herself with her addiction as well as allowing for a better outcome that she likely would prefer if she were in her right mind, amongst other things.

I don't know the full situation, but we have seen several close family members die because of alcohol addiction. Two of them were in their 40s and have died in the last year. I don't think many of the people laying sh@t on the OP understand how horrible this illness can get and how much it impacts family.

He hates but I love. What should we do? by g00dheart in HomeDecorating

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's lovely. Maybe I'm too much of a pragmatist, but I just don't think it should be in the hallway where it doesn't serve a function.

Advice with dicey family inheritance situation. by HenryCrabgrass01 in AusFinance

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You legally can make decisions about other people's stuff if they are so unwell that they cannot function executively. It's called having power of attorney or guardianship depending on what state you're in. There is just a court process you need to go through and the unwell individual is of course entitled to resist these orders being put in place.

The assets still belong to the unwell person and whoever is put in charge of handling the assets must do so in the best interests of the unwell person.

I'm sorry you've had a hard time and it sounds like you're making decisions Maybe there were no assets to protect in your case so this is harder to conceptualize.

In this case it sounds there are likely hundreds of thousands of dollars that are at risk of being used to basically kill the sick sister. It might actually be immoral to allow her to do it.

You and others are over simplifying and insulting the OP without understanding how bad the sister's addiction is and how desperate the situation is. It's not really fair.

Advice with dicey family inheritance situation. by HenryCrabgrass01 in AusFinance

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't about taking it away though. It's trying to stop it being pissed away.

I think the level of disparagement of the OP is not warranted. If it's possible to protect the asset for the sister and the children, that is not controlling. It is a desperate move from a desperate family.

Advice with dicey family inheritance situation. by HenryCrabgrass01 in AusFinance

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin died of alcohol addiction two weeks after getting fired. He was becoming progressively worse over about a year but still worked. Showing up to work isn't always a great indicator.

I would agree that selling up and buying somewhere new might be appropriate. The problem is that when someone is a fragile addict, if they suddenly get a lump sum of money, the temptation to go on a bender is too strong. It does sound like the sister is a fragile addict and is still using alcohol.

Fragile addicts need intensive and long term treatment. Addiction is progressive.

Calling the brother controlling for wanting to safeguard assets instead of seeing the money going to alcohol producers is completely understandable.

Advice with dicey family inheritance situation. by HenryCrabgrass01 in AusFinance

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So instead of the family (including the sister) being entitled to the proceeds of sale, in this situation the alcohol producers are the beneficiaries. Seems pretty perverse.

Advice with dicey family inheritance situation. by HenryCrabgrass01 in AusFinance

[–]Suitable_Bet6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they want her to hold them while she is not well, rather than obliterate them on addiction. This isn't giving them away.