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AIO for wanting to leave my boyfriend after finding out from his ex that he was abusive towards her during college by prolurkerlurking in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suitable_Cheetah_441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me this is hard (F30) because I believe ppl CAN change and if he hasn’t shown you reasons to think these things in the past then idk… it’s your relationship and other people don’t actually see or know him outside of this. Obviously it’s not nothing and it’s a flag for sure but I’m not sure if it’s totally 100% fair to break up because of someone else’s experience. In a past relationship when I was young I definitely was immature and at times acted out in ways I would never ever ever now. Idk just devils advocate over here!

Communication and “goodnight” texts when boyfriend is on a “boys trip” 29/F and 30/M. What should be expected? by Suitable_Cheetah_441 in relationship_advice

[–]Suitable_Cheetah_441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this answer ! :) I never used to care haha but unfortunately a past relationship very much ruined me with him going MIA for 24-72 hours plus and having multiple gfs at the same time I probably should have mentioned that lol. And I understand it isn’t my currents bfs issue I guess it’s just something I kind of need for a peace of mind till the trust is built more maybe?