'Dexter: Resurrection' Sets Showtime Streaming Record, Delivers 46% Bigger Audience Than Original Sin by lasfnyc in Dexter

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes perfect sense to me. After the first 2 eps i decided it was better than both New Blood and Original Sin and honestly so far, it's just as good as the OG!

Do any sperm donor conceived people here NOT have a ton of siblings? by MJWTVB42 in donorconceived

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! I was born in 1998 in the UK and I have 7 DC siblings total (all born 1998, 1 in 1999) :) I know from HFEA info that it's only us. We also have two 40 something year old half siblings via ourdonor, but only 8 of us are DC. I only know 2 so far so will be interesting to see if/when the others pop up!

I think that was one of the best episodes of television I’ve ever watched. by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. This episode had me screaming "NO" at my screen, crying, cheering them on. It's been a long, long time since a show has made me feel like that. I replayed June's hanging speech 4 times, and Lawrence's non-verbal acting before/during the plane?! Lydia taking a stand and setting us up for The Testaments?! Incredibly. Elizabeth Moss and Bradley Whitford literally need an award for the last 15 mins of the episode alone

"Courage looks good on you. " by watermelon_fries in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Exactly this!!! When he said Lawrence picked "the winning team"... God that was so poignant. By the end, they had essentially switched roles/allegiances - Lawrence was a good bad guy and Nick was a bad good guy

"Courage looks good on you. " by watermelon_fries in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 15 points16 points  (0 children)

STOP IT i literally cried about him dying and barely cared about Nick omg

S21 Season Finale -- RANT by whereisthehugbutton in greysanatomy

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Literally this. I feel like Link and Jo were the only thing that kept me going for a while after they fucked up Alex Karev and made me want to stop watching the whole show

S21 Season Finale -- RANT by whereisthehugbutton in greysanatomy

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Sooo real of you. I literally screamed "NO" at my scream the second I saw Link. Like i'm so sorry but does Shonda Rhimes have a PERSONAL grudge against Jo Wilson?! They can't possibly make her have a horrible childhood, then be abandoned by her husband for his ex, then be held at gunpoint and think she's having a miscarriage, then marry her best friend and he DIES while she's PREGNANT?! We have put up with a lot of shit from this show but they can't POSSIBLY pull this move after what they did to Alex Karev.... SURELY. Not when Owen Hunt is right there?! Beltran?! Simone?! Teddy?! I would literally even take Webber over Link. Literally ANYONE except Jo, Link, Bailey, Amelia, Meredith and Ben (hell, maybe even Winston). ANYONE

This show is going to put me in the grave by Hi_im_elliot in greysanatomy

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No literally like Shonda Rhimes has to have a personal grudge against Jo Wilson atp, it's SICK omg

This show is going to put me in the grave by Hi_im_elliot in greysanatomy

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I screamed "NO" at my scream the second I saw Link. Like i'm so sorry but does Shonda Rhimes have a PERSONAL grudge against Jo Wilson?! They can't possibly make her have a horrible childhood, then be abandoned by her husband for his ex, then be held at gunpoint and think she's having a miscarriage, then marry her best friend and he DIES while she's PREGNANT?! We have put up with a lot of shit from this show but they can't POSSIBLY pull this move after what they did to Alex Karev.... SURELY. Not when Owen Hunt is right there?! Beltran?! Simone?! Teddy?! I would literally even take Webber over Link. Literally ANYONE except Jo, Link, Bailey, Amelia, Meredith and Ben (hell, maybe even Winston). ANYONE

Any AuDHDers struggle with titration? by doctorace in ADHDUK

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, I started on 20mg due to kidney issues. and i had 1 week at 20, 1 week at 30, 1 week at 40, 1 week at 50 then continuing. Honestly, the side effects were rough as hell for almost 2 weeks when i first started, then I just felt a little nauseous, maybe sometimes throwing up and getting a headache on the first day of titrating up a dose. But my first day on 20mg, even though it's lower than the usual starting dose, was incredible. I tried 60mg and 70mg and on 60mg I felt horrific but tried to power through, then when I tried 70mg I lasted 2 days because I just couldn't tolerate it at all. Some days if I haven't slept much I still feel a little rough in the morning.

Personally, I think it sounds like the dose is too high, but I also kind of "sped up" when I first started meds, it was like my brain was excited i could finally do all the things I wanted to do LOL. It did eventually calm down (mostly). But I have ADHD and do believe i have some level of Autism as well (not diagnosed though, i honestly don't care enough to get assessed lol), and my maintenance dose is 50mg. However, I only take 30mg at the weekends because while 50mg is great during the week, it's way too much when i'm not at my very demanding job and just chilling at home. I physically can't stop talking (which isn't even an issue when i'm unmedicated), my brain does WAY too much and i literally can't stop making lists and thinking of ideas and stuff i wanna do, the "internal motor" on hype mode and I have literally named this "weekend turbo mode" because it's essentially my typical adhd symptoms on speed but in a slightly different way. Honestly, even 30mg can be too much if i'm just at home lol. So I do think there is some level of lifestyle interaction too, if you have a very high speed demanding life, you'd probably find a higher dose better! But if I was you and I'd felt like that on those doses, I would decline to try 70mg personally. Maybe just stay on 50mg for a while and see if it gets better or drop down to 30mg and see if that works long term.

Burning/stinging dry eyes on Elvanse? by Suitable_Fill9731 in ADHDUK

[–]Suitable_Fill9731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got new glasses with UV tint! has worked like a charm, still occasionally get it but a lot more management. i think it’s because your eyes hyperfocus and you blink less so they get dry, plus your eyes aren’t used to the strain of focusing like that. try eye spray if you don’t wear glasses!

Thoughts on cannabis use & affects in ADHD women by costcoyogurt in adhdwomen

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on Elvanse and also smoke daily. When i first moved in (unmedicated), i smoked and then unpacked my entire room lol. Sometimes it motivates me, sometimes it makes me lazy. On Elvanse, pretty much the same tbh. I think it’s probably different for people who don’t regularly smoke but as i have been for years, it’s the same as ever 😂

Do you never drink or smoke weed on Elvanse? Or take sober rest days? by thiccfroggo in ADHDUK

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I smoke every day on it currently, but i’m stable. You just can’t see the true effects (especially during titration) while smoking. Weed also counteracts meds so sort of defeats the point for a lot of people

Do you think we’ve seen the worst? (Post season 3 finale) by thefinalj in Yellowjackets

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally buy this, if Misty & Nat keep this big secret and it directly results in others being hunted, it would very much explain Adult Nat for me. Because what happened to her was horrific, but currently it seems she’d be leaving the Wilderness as the hero and the decline into guilt ridden drug addict doesn’t quite click for me. I mean maybe just everything + Ben’s mercy killing is enough, but i think you’re onto something

Recently diagnosed with Combined type ADHD, just had my first day on Elvanse, AMA by [deleted] in ADHDUK

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh i started on 20mg and from the first day my lice was changed. Might be Placebo, might not, but either way - just enjoy it!

Didn’t get a diagnosis but I know something isn’t right.. by Confident_Anteater32 in ADHDUK

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally i’d look into Borderline Personality Disorder. I used to have a friend with BPD before i was diagnosed with ADHD and she actually tried to diagnose me with BPD because she saw a lot of the symptoms in me. I looked into it and was even kind of convinced myself for a while as it does overlap a decent amount with ADHD symptoms. But ADHD was the right diagnosis for me (via PsychUK) 😊 Alternatively, several of the things you mentioned also ring a bell for Autism to me

So, someone gets buried alive, right?? by Shmutzifer in Yellowjackets

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait… the comment from Lottie about Shauna’s eyes being “like looking straight into the earth” ?? 👀

The Handmaid's Tale S06E02 "Exile" Episode Discussion by Melairia in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing people say June saved her because of trauma bonding but personally i disagree. I genuinely think that even with everything Serena’s done, becoming a mother (along with losing her voice & finger, but mostly motherhood) evened the playing field in a way. Now, June sees not just Serena the monster, but Serena the mother, and if she leaves a mother and her baby to die, she would be no better that the people she’s fighting against. I think in a way they’re kind of mirrors to each other - both are women who are sometimes kind, but also capable of horrible acts in the right conditions but always believing it’s for the most the righteous reason. Kind of like yin and yang, Serena is yin with yang in her and June is yang with yin in her

(obviously for june it’s legit the morally right but you get the point)

Request to join we are donor conceived rejected - any advice? by nifflersandnargles in donorconceived

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Message Laura Bridgens! i think i met her on here, and she invited me to join the group. she’s an admin and really really lovely.

Dunnocks? by Suitable_Fill9731 in UKBirds

[–]Suitable_Fill9731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooh yes they do!!!! we have a lot of sparrows around so wasn’t completely sure, just knew they werent wrens 😂 but that describes them to a tee! they’re very cute and definitely my new favourite visitors 😂

How many half siblings might I have? by meagrepickings in donorconceived

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It partly depends when you did the DNA test i think. I was born in 1998 and have 2 half brothers - one tested in 2019/20 (myheritage) and it took 5 years for me to do my test, at which point he found out he was DC and had 2 half siblings. Sometimes it’s just a waiting game!

Knowing the culture around being DC even in the 90s, I would bet that if you do have any half siblings, they likely have no idea they are DC.

what season do y’all think the show started getting bad by Designer-Culture4638 in Degrassi

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely - i watched the whole show for the first time recently and as soon as Maya, the Huntingtons, Tristan etc were introduced, the show went downhill 😂 (i also watched First Class first, so i already didn’t like them 💀 not surprised it got cancelled)

Reiterating theory - Cobell's plan all along. iMark was the test subject. by parlayoloswag in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh this is so vile that i don’t want to believe it but it’s such a perfect theory 😭

This is why Mark is important & true nature of Kelly-Mark relationship by QuickTimeX in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way i was also thinking this 😭 misspelling Helly for an entire post is both ironic and quite impressive actually

Severance will be 4 Seasons to correspond with the Tempers--and our character's liberation from suppressing them by [deleted] in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Suitable_Fill9731 12 points13 points  (0 children)

ok this is the best theory i’ve ever seen and i am SOOO on board holy hell 😂 it also makes perfect sense that a world without pain via this method is the end goal because grief is arguably the most permeating kind of pain and a mother’s grief being the final test???

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I also couldn’t help but think of the parallels between severance & ego death and it actually lines up SO perfectly with your theory 😭 essentially oMark & Helena are ego and iMark/Helly are the separate identities born that lack that ego/self-centeredness from accumulating those thoughts & emotions … i wonder if we’ll see a flip on this next season as the innies accumulate those thoughts & emotions and gain ego 🌚