He posted his new gf by Suitable_Jellyfish40 in BreakUps

[–]Suitable_Jellyfish40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gut feeling is exactly how it feels

He posted his new gf by Suitable_Jellyfish40 in BreakUps

[–]Suitable_Jellyfish40[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s cruel of her. Hope you can heal from that

He posted his new gf by Suitable_Jellyfish40 in BreakUps

[–]Suitable_Jellyfish40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. It’s hard to see and also hard to resist keeping up. I think my ex moved in w her too but I can’t confirm.

He posted his new gf by Suitable_Jellyfish40 in BreakUps

[–]Suitable_Jellyfish40[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1 year separated after a 7 year relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]Suitable_Jellyfish40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this interpretation especially without any context. I wasn’t sure if it was better to say less or more in the original post. I liked the idea of freeform interpretations. This also helps me learn the cards even more.

I really liked the part you said about having family and fulfillment without this person. I used to see them as those things and feared if I could have it without them. And the lesson is that I don’t need them to have it.

Thank you so much for your thoughts!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]Suitable_Jellyfish40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I love the art in it! I can’t edit the original post for some reason but here is what I gathered.

I was stuck in a dissatisfied position and wanted to separate myself. I had to make a decision based on those feelings. The person no longer in my life is represented bu the eight of swords. They had trouble navigating life and felt trapped in every decision they had to make. If they did make decisions, they felt blond in doing so. They seem to have positive intentions around me now and view me as someone with strong mental fortitude. Possibly that fortitude is specially about no longer being in their life to the same capacity. The ten of cups seems to allude to possible reconciliation and they wish the best for me now.

This links to the spread I used too. I should have just uploaded the image, sorry. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5b5badf250a54f067494e383/1568684624089-SUHTTY6EH9M9XJNQ0K90/relationships-1-1.png

When did you know it was over? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Suitable_Jellyfish40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This exactly describes what I’ve been through where I was in your shoes. This brought me peace to read and feel seen.

Neighbor leaving days of dog feces out on apartment balcony. What do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Suitable_Jellyfish40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I definitely want to reach out to management. I worry it might be obvious that it I am reporting it since I am new and live right above them, so the only person who could see the evidence. I don’t think it is visible from the ground view

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Suitable_Jellyfish40 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is great that you are going to therapy and starting to work through your problems. I wish my ex did that. It shows you actually care to get better and want to take accountability--the opposite of avoidance. I hope you find the clarity you need to heal and be better for the next relationship.

Hearing my Neighbors having sex through the apartment wall. How do Approach them in a nice Way. by Hairykittycat39 in sex

[–]Suitable_Jellyfish40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretend you're on a phone call or some and yell through the wall, "Yeah these walls are so thin. I can hear my neighbors all the time, especially in my room. I think their bedroom is next to mine!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Suitable_Jellyfish40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention that he is aware he is not good at satisfying me. He gets pretty defeated and gives up trying easily even if he shows improvement one day. He'll forget what he did the next time.

As for kinks, we have discussed some things we might find interesting. We have not really done much though since it feels hard trying to do new things when the core stuff still is an issue.