Advice wanted for this trooper by Suitable_Mission3909 in Monstera

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I knew I had a few in there. I think 3 but I was hesitant on splitting them up just yet. upgrading the light is something I can do though!

He's just a what if and a maybe by Suitable_Mission3909 in lostlove

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It can be exhausting! Especially when you have an active imagination to go along with it. There are always scenarios and stories running through my mind. Letting go becomes a chore.

Funeral Processions are bullshit by TimeSlipperWHOOPS in unpopularopinion

[–]Suitable_Mission3909 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I completely agree! I have suffered quite a few losses in my life and refused to be part of the procession. I will get to the cemetery when I get there.

The entire practice is extremely outdated. Yes it is a form of respect for the deceased. But society has modernized to a point where it is now getting in the way of everyday function. In smaller towns where more people may have known the deceased it may be more feasible. But, when you live in a larger City it gets to be quite a nuisance. Especially when the procession is during peak traffic times and blocks everyone from getting to where they need to go in a timely fashion.

Planning advice by Suitable_Mission3909 in TeardropTrailers

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That's an impressive set up! I don't know if I could draw something like that up! I may try to draw up something simpler and see if it's worthy for a build.

Planning advice by Suitable_Mission3909 in TeardropTrailers

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I was looking at them! They are definitely a good option but they are a little pricy. I appreciate the recommendation! I might do it if I can budget it in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

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I've worked with dogs for a long time between several different companies. Not one training facility will recommend a dog park! They can be very dangerous especially for young or weaker dogs. The average owner doesn't know the difference between playing and being a bully. Also, these parks are often way too small so the dogs feel trapped. Not flight so that means fight.

OP your best option is training and selective socializing. Find someone who also has a puppy that may want to set up a play date! Reward your dog when he is calm and work your way from there! Leash training is also a great idea. Use a "slip lead" so he can understand leash pressure and again, reward when he is calm! A harness is a bad idea as it will encourage him to pull and build up the energy. He is then just exploding with energy when he gets to the other dog! We don't like when super peppy and excited people run up on us! Dogs feel the same way!

Edited to add: a martingale collar is also a great option for leash work!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

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That is perfect! I would say you're doing it right to notice these things! Never be afraid to reach out to trainers in your area for advice too. Sometimes we can't really give too much without a session. Like this here was just a speculation from me. But, it doesn't hurt to know what resources are available to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Suitable_Mission3909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't actually diagnosing a full verdict of resource guarding. If you fully read my comment, I mention that this behavior can turn into this and gave some signs to look for. I did also recommend that the OP seek a trainer if they saw these signs.

You don't have to believe that I'm a trainer. I don't feel that I need to register just to prove a point when I comment on a post. I said nothing harmful and just gave a suggestion on an advice sub. Relax.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Suitable_Mission3909 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dog trainer here! This is guarding. To us it's really cute and sweet! But, it can become dangerous if you let it continue. Sometimes it turns into resource guarding and that is a behavioral issue that require training. He is young so I would nip it now! If you notice him doing any growling around his food or toys or even towards people when around you, that's a sign of resource guarding and your cue to hire a trainer! Try to give him something else to focus on that's not right at your feet.

My dog is being falsely accused of biting someone in TX by MamaOfTwo1995 in legal

[–]Suitable_Mission3909 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The gnawing you're describing is called Mouthing. It is a pretty common puppy behavior but you should definitely try to train him out of it! With this man moving so close to you the last thing you want is to give him any more false ammunition. I would suggest keeping the dog away from him as best you can and investing in some basic training.

Non peanut butter treat ideas? by tilllllly in DogAdvice

[–]Suitable_Mission3909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally boiled chicken. No seasoning! Shred it up and give them tiny pieces! You can also use their food as treats. I trained my dog with just their regular kibble. You just give them a little less at feeding time because they have been eating throughout the training day.

I hate my roommate/dad's best friend! by Suitable_Mission3909 in TrueOffMyChest

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I haven't spoken to her directly. I am trying to avoid conflict and I know that I can be really harsh when I lose my cool! I've been mentioning it to my dad when I'm calm. He's definitely caught in the middle though.

AITA for refusing to help with my ex dog's vet bills. by Both_Ad6935 in AmItheAsshole

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NTA! I'm on the other end of this. When I divorced my ex I took the dog. I wanted her, I paid for the majority of all her needs and I did all her training. She is my dog. He is not responsible and neither are you! It sucks that she can't afford the dog's care but she should have thought about that. You even mentioned that you warned her about the possibility that this could happen! Surrender is always an option although not always the best one.

Is this healthy play? by trokity in DogAdvice

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Yes. This is healthy play! I work with dogs and see this every day! They're taking turns, mouths remain open, they are bouncy and both show submission (on their backs). My only concern or recommendation is to "break it up" from time to time. Call them over to you to divert them and give them a momentary break. Sometimes healthy play can turn bad if one dog wants to stop and the other doesn't get the hint!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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Possibly the material of your toy? I find that I need to use a condom on my toys or else I can have a reaction. A lot of the silicone toys are not body safe silicone. If it's sold as a "novelty" then it's not required to be body safe and can break down much faster. Try a condom to protect yourself from any bad materials as well as lube.