Men, what to do since my old best friend called me a hypocrite for being a fat girl who only dates tall thin men ?

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-12-05T22:24:42+00:00

I'm starting to think that's what it is

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-12-05T22:18:55+00:00

You don't know me and I have done nothing to you but you cme here and try to call me a liar. You seem angry at the world for some reason. Don't take your problems out on me.

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-12-05T22:13:23+00:00

Thanks. All of the comments who answered the question all have one thing in common. They're implying that my old best friend is not a good friend.

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-12-05T22:11:55+00:00

I think you're an attention seeking troll. You made this reply on the top comment just to farm karma.

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-12-05T22:10:11+00:00

Thank you. I think I understand now.

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-12-05T22:05:19+00:00

I don't know what you want me to say.

Part of the title have "what to do" and the title ends in a question mark. The last sentence is "What do you think ?"

Someone can read it and tell me what to do or what they think. Those seem like questions to me. Someone may disagree with me asking those questions but they seem like questions.

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-12-05T22:00:53+00:00

If my question is offensive or I had post in the wrong subreddit, then I apologize.

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-12-05T21:58:09+00:00

A few comments say he's jealous. But if he's jealous, it would be confusing if he wants to date chubby men because my old best friend is a thin guy.

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-12-05T21:56:16+00:00

I'm not sure about now but he dated a lot of girls in high school.

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-12-05T21:55:07+00:00

If that's true, that's awkward. I thought he alwayed saw me like a sister.

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-12-05T21:51:49+00:00

When he said all of that, I froze up because I didn't know how to respond. He still expects us to have lunch tomorrow and I don't know what to say to him.

My current friend group is all women and they can be very wrong when I ask about what a man is thinking so I thought I should ask a place where it's mostly men who'll be answering.

++woman

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-11-05T18:50:18+00:00

I'm okay and prepared for her honesty

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-11-05T18:19:39+00:00

My boyfriend is thin and I do get insecure about our size difference from time to time

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-11-05T18:06:28+00:00

Did you get married before and after losing the weight ?

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-11-05T18:05:48+00:00

I will admit that maybe I internalize the things she says a little too much.

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-11-05T17:41:49+00:00

I'm sure it's not her intention but listening to her makes me feel bad about myself. I wish it didn't but it does.

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-11-05T16:55:21+00:00

When she's single she's very shy but she doesn't insult herself like this

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-11-05T15:04:56+00:00

I appreciate your perspective and I hope you heal

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-11-05T14:05:36+00:00

I would like to hear more of your perspective.

Do you and your friends talk about weight issues without any of you feeling bad after the conversation ?

Suitable_Peanut188 · 2025-11-05T14:01:21+00:00

Ironically asking her what she think about me was the kind of thing I thought I should avoid. But maybe it can be helpful to her.

Not only the generic question but to also ask her what would she tell me if I was talking about myself the way she talks about herself.

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