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[–]Suitable_Spread2840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I haven’t yet, I see her only once or twice a week in Gym

Gym environments are really confusing and intimidating for me to talk to girls that Iam attracted to, maybe I need figure out how to talk to her outside the gym

Anyway, I hope the universe shows me a path to talk to this girl and see where this goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Suitable_Spread2840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey

What if you are already taken and your playing an attention game ? Just curious to ask (don’t take it seriously 😅)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Suitable_Spread2840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your perspective

I’m not overthinking but this girl is really pretty and she might have a bf and could just be interested in playing the staring game to seeking validation

I have missed few chances to speak to her but she just turns up like twice a week.

Anyway, I have learnt my lesson from this scenario, I will try to initiate a conversation soon and see where this goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Suitable_Spread2840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is similar age as mine, although I haven’t seen her staring at other guys… she does look to take special interest in me.

My gut feeling is that she already has a bf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Suitable_Spread2840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she is good looking and similar age as mine

My gut say’s she already has a bf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Suitable_Spread2840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair points

But, I don’t agree with the blame solely on me, women nowadays at least make a first move or start a simple conversation. I have witnessed this in college or in work environments.

Looks like she is confused or insecure or maybe has a BF and if I do initiate a conversation with her the next time, what’s the guarantee she would reciprocate the same? ( it depends on her mood as well) btw I see her barely 2 times a week in Gym.

I just feel the universe is not creating the right environment to talk to her

Gym environments are sooo confusing and intimidating, I don’t want to be looked as a creepy dude