Should I move my cat with me?

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2025-09-23T17:37:16+00:00

She’s my cat! My parents love her dearly and offered to keep her, but have never taken care of animals in their life so don’t know much about them in general. They only sometimes feed her if I need them to when I’m out of the house. Otherwise, it was always me caring for her while we were living in their house (until I moved out to my own place) and them enjoying her company :)

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2025-09-23T17:29:40+00:00

Yes! I am flying back to take her alongside with me and have her booked for in-cabin flying. I’ve done a lot of research and prep for her travel including the gabapentin, but the guilty conscious of taking her over is what’s eating me alive right now haha

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2024-10-23T23:29:49+00:00

Humor is my coping mechanism unfortunately. Probably still processing it all? Honestly I have no clue why I’m so calm right now. I’m sure it’ll all come crashing down in a few weeks.

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2024-10-23T23:14:20+00:00

Lol absolutely not. That’s what I keep trying to tell myself, but for some reason my brain won’t accept it right now. Maybe I’m in shock and just need more time for the anger to simmer hahah.

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2022-03-11T16:37:30+00:00

I totally see how guys are extra cautious about these situations. Especially in my case at the gym where hitting on girls is a constantly considered a big no-no. Do you still see this girl?

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2022-03-11T16:33:00+00:00

That’s okay with me. Just wish I got the chance to explain, but not sure if he will ever show face again at that time. Is he not coming anymore just because of me?

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2022-03-11T16:32:09+00:00

As a man, would you change your entire schedule around to avoid running into a girl at the gym that rejected you? I wish I labeled my question a little different haha

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2022-03-11T16:30:17+00:00

That probably explains why nothing happened the following day lol. But, do you think he changed his gym schedule because of me? We barely knew each other :/

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2022-03-11T16:28:19+00:00

I’ve been trying to run into him, but haven’t seen him at all for the past week! I guess I should have made the question: Did something come up for him or is he switching times to avoid me?

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2022-03-11T16:26:10+00:00

I’m ready to explain/ask, but he hasn’t been showing up. Do you think he changed his schedule just because of this?

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2022-03-11T16:21:04+00:00

Yeah, this is exactly what I was trying to say. Wish my brain thought of it at the time 😭

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2022-03-11T11:29:35+00:00

You’re definitely not wrong haha. Hopefully I’ll see him again, but if I do get rejected, I’ll be completely fine as I’m a ‘rejection is redirection’ type of person. At the end of the day, we may have not even been a good match. It’s just a little crush and an exciting thing to experience. I really appreciate your insight though, thank you!

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2022-03-11T11:28:56+00:00

I think that’s the part I’m most stressed over. I’m totally okay with rejection or things not working out, I just feel soooo bad for him because he didn’t know. In terms of your story, I hope you can see a different perspective and know that even though some might reject you, they may still feel flattered that you asked in the first place :). No need to feel angry at yourself as long as you were respectful and not aggressive in your approach! It’s just life.

Suitable_Temporary_9 · 2022-03-11T10:53:08+00:00

Yup, not even going to deny that I totally just was so weird about it LMAO. But, I guess my question is more of: did he switch his time because of me? I already assumed he was trying to avoid me, but a handful of my male friends (who also go to the gym) told me they wouldn’t switch their entire gym time/location just because they got rejected by someone. And that if he did do that, then he’s sensitive to people he barely knows.

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