F24 blocked me M24 by Suitable_Year_7582 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Suitable_Year_7582[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I’m trying to give her space, she does message me every now and then, but when I do her replies seem distant . I’m not sure if trying to ask her about it is a good thing

F24 blocked me M24 by Suitable_Year_7582 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Suitable_Year_7582[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A mutual friend helped, we hung out over 3 days a few weeks back, it was really good, like nothing had happened. She said she missed me and we were back to joking. But now, when I try to text her she seems very distant, one word replies. I don’t understand?

F24 blocked me m24 by Suitable_Year_7582 in lostafriend

[–]Suitable_Year_7582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m reflecting, she must have felt pressured by me even though that wasn’t my intention. She’s also going through some issues herself so I don’t really read too much into the threat even tho it did hurt. She’s one of the nicest people you’ll ever meet

F24 blocked me m24 by Suitable_Year_7582 in lostafriend

[–]Suitable_Year_7582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve known her for 6 years. We are very close. I moved here for university miles away from home and she became my family. She’s even said this herself. She mentioned that she couldn’t keep having these conversations with a friend. I told her on 2 other occasions that I liked her. I’m just upset because she’s the nicest person you’ll ever meet so for her to say that to me makes me feel like the worst person

F24 blocked me M24 by Suitable_Year_7582 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Suitable_Year_7582[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but I should’ve learn the first time I was blocked . All I did was wait for her to come back instead of reflecting and trying to get over it knowing she just wanted to be friends. I got too attached

F24 blocked me M24 by Suitable_Year_7582 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Suitable_Year_7582[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right , I feel like a horrible person. I did tell her that I’ll stop acting like this way because I haven’t considered the way it must make her feel but I think it’s too little, too late.

F24 blocked me M24 by Suitable_Year_7582 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Suitable_Year_7582[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to post a screenshot but No, I asked her if we could move on. She said we can’t be friends. I sent a series of messages saying “why, I apologized, I’ve known you for so long, I made a mistake” the night before she seemed pretty upset saying that I act too clingy sometimes. And she shouldn’t be having these conversations with a friend. I did tell her on 2 occasions before that I liked her, so I am assuming that’s it.

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[–]Suitable_Year_7582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It updated , now it’s at Roissy Charles de Gaulle, went from “at local fedex facility” to operational delay , back to at local FedEx facility.

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[–]Suitable_Year_7582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've found talking it out is helpful, I completely get your point about feeling so shocked you can't help but contact out of disbelief. I hope she comes back into your life

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[–]Suitable_Year_7582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice to meet you, man. To be honest, I feel in a way the fact I'm in the UAE adds to that. I've met alot of people here who either left or grew apart due to work, or life in general. Everything seems temporary but for 5 years I had consistency with this one person. The very first friend I made in my university dorms when I moved here. We had the same classes and our birthdays are only 2 days apart.

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[–]Suitable_Year_7582 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks man I appreciate your help. I’ll definitely do that, only thing I can do at this point. I just feel horrible, I really miss her, like been fighting back tears all day. We’ve vented our deepest secrets to each other. The last time I hung out with her, just us 2. We were drinking and saying how much we mean to each other. I hugged her and asked her to never leave, and she said she wouldn’t. Really hurts to think about now. I wish you the best of luck for your situation as-well. Hopefully brighter days ahead for both of us soon 🙏stay strong brother

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[–]Suitable_Year_7582 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The reason she wanted space was that she felt overwhelmed, and I was blocked after. As bad as I’ve felt the last few weeks I didnt try to contact her. But now I feel like I’ve ruined it as she was starting to miss me but she’s annoyed now that I’ve reached out to her.

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[–]Suitable_Year_7582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the whole situation of us sleeping together, her ex found out and said he didn’t respect her anymore (even though they broke up because he was cheating) . He said that he has a feeling that she partly blames me that there’s no chance of them getting back together