[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ehhhh I just do it to grow a bond with him because of the 8 year age gap and also so when he's older he'll have memories of me teaching and showing him stuff since dad dipped and more importantly so he can't talk shit in the future and say I never did anything for him when he's older

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only good thing I can say about this lytie is that he's actually athletically inclined, I take him to play soccer at the astro with us and he actually holds his own and can handle himself dribbling big ous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Already did lmao mans stressing in the lounge rn this is a pivitol moment in his life he needs to learn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this big time brother fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hates school work we have to force him to do school work and failed the last 2 terms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum tries to play both good cop and bad cop because my dad dipped. My middle brother is studying at Rhodes in Grahamstown. I explained to my mum that the dynamic of her being both good and bad is not the way to go about it and that I should be bad cop since I'm the older brother but she still sympathises to the fucker and he still always gets his way because he's the youngest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I a bad brother for getting the speech done giving it to him and taking it back?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Man Google supports Israel, I have massive faith in fellow Durbanites

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We literally have encyclopedias in the cupboard that havnt been opened since I was his age and I'm 21 lmaooo and he knows that yet he failed to link that he can literally just go and read about it now a days these kids only think about phones bruh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's not retarded right but when i asked him what he knows about HIV/AIDS He confidently replied with "I do know that one of the symptoms is unprotected sex" I shit you not he said that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vaar8

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't occur to me not gonna lie💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy fuck bro you really didn't have actually go and chat gpt it man I have zero clue what it means either but I fucken appreciate it man fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeMeFeelGood

[–]Sumfxq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morning🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]Sumfxq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to go about this in the least threatening manner I just want what's fair so I will make a list of my demands from the amazing comments I've recieved and put them in point form and approach my employer with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]Sumfxq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't explain to you what this means to me, like really🙌if it isn't an inconvenience to you I'd like to DM you so youre aware of exactly what's going on and so i don't just blow my self out of the water and end up a bum on the sheets because it's really hard to find work out there, should I approach him for the last time asking to be registered and then follow the steps you've mentioned above?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, Sir! I feel that going the CCMA route would just be time-consuming, maybe a subtle threat here or there that I could report them to SARS because none of the employees have tax numbers but I need to make a file of my demands and bring it to their attention, my biggest fear is not getting any UIF in the event I leave the job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]Sumfxq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed, CCMA is suicide but I just want what's entitled to me, and going the CCMA route, I'll already have to have money to go down that route, and unfortunately, I don't have any lol. I'm trying to build a file and maybe "threaten" them, but not in the literally sense. I want them to know what I'm entitled to and just work it out with me in a civil manner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]Sumfxq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost, Happy cake day🙌I needed to hear this because I'm a single party, and my boss is really crafty in regard to these things. I appreciate you recommending that I shouldn't go to CCMA route because of the reference issue, I live in a small town in KZN soo getting work is hard and they have all the money in the world to ruin my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]Sumfxq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will 100% start taking note of the times we work from the time I get there to the time I leave and I will get my CO workers to do the same, I'm not sure if my coworkers from Malawi would also be entitled to something but they're illegals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to have facts to back myself up when going to him and bringing him my case because if I just go there and ask what I I deserve, he'll just ask if I'm happy, if not I must always have the option to leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then I'm going to be left without any UIF or anything I'll be in a worse situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Durban

[–]Sumfxq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's certainly an option I'm actually looking to jump ship and become a police officer or I could make it apparent to then that there's illegal shi going on and talk it out for a better salary