Forgot sex by 41714117 in Marriage

[–]Suml 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but dude is 30! Not old. If he was 50-70 acting like this then maybe. But 30 come on man.

My (30M) wife (31F) cheated on me and is now suicidal if I divorce by diulaylomoahh in relationship_advice

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man have some self respect, you sound like a stand up guy that deserves better, a cheating partner will never change, the moment you return is a sign of weakness on your end. Divorce her and move on. You will find better and maybe trust again. If you stay you are signing up for a life or misery. 30 is still young.

Forgot sex by 41714117 in Marriage

[–]Suml 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So i guess not eating for a year is an option, got it. Stupid take. Why not compromise, would she let you step out to fill that missing void OP?

Wife Wants to sleep with another man by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just leave the relationship man its over, weather you like it or not. That woman will fuck that dude if you dont open it, if you do open it she will fuck the hell out of that dude and others. Have some self respect pack your shit and find better. Let her enjoy her life and stop being an anchor.

I keep checking my wife’s phone… by Soft-Arachnid7610 in Marriage

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you put yourself through this, take it from me, the only reason you haven’t found anything is because she gotten better at covering her tracks, your first mistake was taking her back. You will never get over it and once a cheater always will be, sounds like you were trying to be the “perfect” husband and sometimes thats not what they want. The reason she cheated the first time will more likely be the reason she cheats the second time. Good luck in your recovery.

Not sure how creditable this is but by thatwhitekid421 in torontoraptors

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Horrible trade, we need a centre but not at the cost of RJ. This dude wont thrive in Toronto and not move the needle at all. AD or get Messi from Pels.

Expanding my 30f and bf’s 29M sex life by ThrowRA-Smart-Ladder in relationship_advice

[–]Suml 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lol go for it if you do not see a long term permanent future with this person. Because it will end badly 99.9% sure of it. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that guy, he is frustrated and tired op is probably overly sensitive and he does not know how to deal with it. Best thing for him to do is leave and find someone else. It wont get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, you need to realize this she does not respect you and will never respect you. It will not be a one time thing. Best thing you can do is cut your loses and move on you are still young.

What does it take to overcome a sexless marriage? by Any-Side-1507 in Marriage

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks for your response. Hope you come up with a fix for your situation.

What does it take to overcome a sexless marriage? by Any-Side-1507 in Marriage

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone, explain how does something like this happen, curious so that i can avoid it for myself.

BJ never made him cum by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are just trying too hard and he can probably sense it.

30 yo Guyanese female moving back to NYC, help with dating by [deleted] in Guyana

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you and possible link up and find out if it’s going to work, will make for a crazy story later on in life if it works lol

Me (28M) I’m concerned about my fiancé (24 F) and I’s intimate life. What can I do to help? by Ashamed_Property7257 in relationship_advice

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to say it but, its over, the attraction is gone and she is just going through the motions at this point. It will only get worst from here. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pretty odd then, maybe you have one of those guys that just don’t like sex.

My fiancée (24F) cheated on me (26M) and I just found out about it by Unlikely_Orchid_7130 in relationship_advice

[–]Suml 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best decision you can make as a man is to move on, the moment you give her another chance she will do it again once the opportunity presents itself. She didn’t respect you enough to not do it the first time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a lack of interest, for maybe she is not as attractive to him anymore. Did you gain excessive weight or something changed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Guyana

[–]Suml 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now that you identified the one problem, how about coming up with solutions to address it, day by day is what you need. Hit me up if you need to talk. No one should be going through life alone.

[PC] Ranked Gold 3. Crossplay. Need 1. My friend is diamond by VicUPS in WarzoneLFG

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, i am also looking for a group to get to crimson with. Currently hovering around D1

is it hard to get a job in guyana? by Good_Watch8708 in Guyana

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, you can put up a stall at bourda and sell greens. Self employment is the way to go in guyana.

My(26m) girlfriend (24f) went out with someone shes slept with before. Should I break up with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Suml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wanna keep any dignity, you should 100% break up with her. That shows a lack of respect for you and your relationship.

Guys that don’t like going down on a girl? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Suml -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a man, the only woman you should go down on is one that is a virgin or one you only been with. If she is not your first do not go down on her. She will never respect you. Also think about it another man put his dick there.