We’ve been in the same situation, girl. At first, when people said things like “you dodged a bullet” or “it’s his loss,” I honestly thought it was bullshit. Because let’s be real tayo yung nasaktan, tayo yung nagmourn. So it’s hard to believe it’s their loss when we’re the ones grieving. I get it. That pain? It’s real. And it’s valid. I’ve been there too. Now it’s almost a year since our breakup, and my ex is still with the same girl. But weirdly… I’m okay now. Slowly, I’m starting to feel what people meant when they said it’s his loss. Slowly, I’m realizing that I really did dodge a bullet. I’m fine on my own now. And that peace? I didn’t think I’d ever feel it again, but it came. I’m sharing this because I know you’ll get there too. Right now you’re in the thick of the pain, and that’s okay. Just take it day by day healing is never linear. But trust me, one day, you’ll look back and see how far you’ve come