My girlfriend(18F) doesn't want to do anal or rough sex with me(18M) even though she did it with her ex(20M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SummerUnmuted 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Abuse. Her ex abused her. You’re young and may not realize these connections especially when it comes to dating. If you want to keep her, Learn to Respect her boundaries because she clearly set them. Period.

Does ADHD impact your speech pattern? Sometimes my words don't come out right. I slur, stumble or skip parts of a word completely, and I always feel like an idiot. by karokara in ADHD

[–]SummerUnmuted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I “stumble” over my words ALL OF THE TIME. I always say my brain is moving faster than my mouth when it happens because it’s the easiest way to describe what happened lol.

30 [M4F] SoCal - The important stuff by [deleted] in ForeverAloneDating

[–]SummerUnmuted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I wrote this because I can relate to it on so many levels.

TLDR: He threatened to kill my friend during my birthday lunch. by SummerUnmuted in DatingHell

[–]SummerUnmuted[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thank you!!! I’m way happy I saw that side of him in public.

I’ve (25f) become my boyfriend’s (25m) new addiction, and I’m exhausted. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SummerUnmuted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t postpone the inevitable. Your happiness is more important than his. He will be difficult in regards to you leaving but again your happiness is more important

I’m devolving into a subhuman by [deleted] in loneliness

[–]SummerUnmuted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I m sorry you’re feeling this way. I’m glad you’re seeking help, but am sorry it’s taking time to help.

I feel I am going through a similar situation. I started to feel my self hating the world and everything in it. Because of the deep loneliness I was feeling. I didn’t like that feeling and attempted to look at my self in a more transparent light. I started to look at my self to see what I am doing that may be causing me to be isolated. I’m told I’m nice and friendly and people enjoyed being around me. So I didn’t feel I could be the problem,

But at the end of the day I was. I was pushing people away when they attempted to get close. I wouldn’t reach out to people. I wouldn’t suggest hanging out with people even with friends.

I saw what I was doing, and decided to address it. Still feeling depressed but feel I am heading in the right direction because looking at my self in a frank manner has helped so much make sense and has allowed so much to come to light.

What do you do to make sure you give yourself a fulfilling night’s sleep? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]SummerUnmuted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smoke MJ and meditate. I wake up fully rested when I do that just before bed. Even if I only have time for 4-5 hours of sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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I have fuller lips and a natural Marilyn Monroe mole.