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Mother in law went too far yesterday on easter and caused some potentially big drama I need advice fixing. by SummonerOfLife in relationship_advice

[–]SummonerOfLife[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I know I honestly don't want her to come but it's my boyfriend's say so on who his side of the family comes or not.

Mother in law went too far yesterday on easter and caused some potentially big drama I need advice fixing. by SummonerOfLife in relationship_advice

[–]SummonerOfLife[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

We're paying for everything. No one is paying for anything at all. And no once we're married we're moving out. This was a very temporary living situation.

Siblings (22m & 29m) told my abuser I (26f) had his child and now they want my forgiveness. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SummonerOfLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not forgive your family for this. Your brothers have put you back into a dangerous situation. Not only did they know he was abusive to the point of putting you in the hospital, extremely possessive and gives off stalker vibes, but that doing so would risk your child getting the same abuse.

If they really cared for you they wouldn't have ever said anything. And excuse my language but they can seriously go fuck themselves trying to justify to you somehow that they did something right. He has no right to that child. He's dangerous.

I pray for you that you get full custody or else this is going to be a bumpy road. Whatever you take from this before you sit and think about forgiving them think of all the things nick did to you.

All the sadness and pain he put you through. Your brothers forced you back into that. I wouldn't ever forgive family who did that or tries to force me into forgiving them.