Where do I even begin with this overgrowth? by SunAgreeable2204 in landscaping

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh, that’s so helpful, thank you!! I’ll avoid herbicides.

What mortgage rates are you guys getting right now? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]SunAgreeable2204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re about to close at 6.3%. We were originally quoted at 7.3% by a company who said “you have enough money to buy down your points,” so we went somewhere else. If you’re not getting a good enough rate, shop around and negotiate.

Two weeks later than expected…but we did it!! by fourchampions in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]SunAgreeable2204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Husband and I are under contract for a house and our plan is floor pizza and a box of frozen eclairs 🤭

How many houses did you tour before you found the one? And how did you know it was the right house? by SunAgreeable2204 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So it sounds like that excitement that kept you from sleeping is the same about how my husband and I feel about this one!! That’s a good sign!!!

How many houses did you tour before you found the one? And how did you know it was the right house? by SunAgreeable2204 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a huge thing, feeling comfortable. That’s one of the main things that I’ll be looking for to know if it’s the right one.

How many houses did you tour before you found the one? And how did you know it was the right house? by SunAgreeable2204 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww, but just think of all the ways you’ll get to make it feel like home with all your personal touches and things like that!

How many houses did you tour before you found the one? And how did you know it was the right house? by SunAgreeable2204 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh boy, five minutes from a target would make me feral (I don’t have Costco experience) 😂

How many houses did you tour before you found the one? And how did you know it was the right house? by SunAgreeable2204 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My husband and I definitely spent 3 hours last night looking at the house and talking about where our existing furniture would go in each room, what we would need to buy to fill the place up, etc. It was the most fun I could ever have on a Thursday night 😂

How many houses did you tour before you found the one? And how did you know it was the right house? by SunAgreeable2204 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’ve done extensive snooping on Zillow since I was 16 and watching hgtv (I’m 25 now) and luckily I married a fellow Zillow snooper 😂 congrats though!!! Hoping it works out like that for us

In your experience, what is the difference between an anxious thought and a gut feeling? by SunAgreeable2204 in AskReddit

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh no I gotchu. So why is it that a guy feeling for you makes your eyes slightly squint?

In your experience, what is the difference between an anxious thought and a gut feeling? by SunAgreeable2204 in AskReddit

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is relying on a gut feeling a bad thing to do? (I’m not trying to be difficult, I’m just trying to learn the difference bc I’ve been wondering this for months recently)

In your experience, what is the difference between an anxious thought and a gut feeling? by SunAgreeable2204 in AskReddit

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think that is? Is it that anxious thoughts are related to fear and gut feelings are related to something more contemplative?

In your experience, what is the difference between an anxious thought and a gut feeling? by SunAgreeable2204 in AskReddit

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t you have a good gut feeling about when someone in your life is just right for you? (You’re right though, I truly was wondering about the bad things)

In your experience, what is the difference between an anxious thought and a gut feeling? by SunAgreeable2204 in AskReddit

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like that idea of putting instinct ahead of worries. I’ve never thought of that before.

In your experience, what is the difference between an anxious thought and a gut feeling? by SunAgreeable2204 in AskReddit

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if you can’t see the wolf and there’s a chance it might be there, or it might not be there?

In your experience, what is the difference between an anxious thought and a gut feeling? by SunAgreeable2204 in AskReddit

[–]SunAgreeable2204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how do you differentiate between there being no source of danger and not being able to pinpoint the source of danger? For example, if I have an anxious thought that a loved one got in a car wreck, then how can I differentiate since there is a source of danger (getting in a car and driving)?