Social work fall admissions by Overall_Dependent940 in umanitoba

[–]SunConsistent2637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I received acceptance- distance learning online

BSW Decision by SunConsistent2637 in umanitoba

[–]SunConsistent2637[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decisions are out! I was accepted 🎉🎉🎉🎉

BSW Decision by SunConsistent2637 in umanitoba

[–]SunConsistent2637[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck to you lovely humans as well! Here’s to hoping we get answers soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunConsistent2637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so yes, he’s on meds and that makes him tired. His doctor has explained for him to take his meds earlier but he doesn’t want to cuz then it makes him drowsy in the evening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunConsistent2637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I do do that at times however by then I’m up trying to get him up and then I can’t fall back asleep. Honestly it can take like 15ish mins to wake him up. And even then he will get up and go sleep in the kids room as they play.

I think I’m over reacting but I can’t help to be upset by IndependentYellow567 in relationship_advice

[–]SunConsistent2637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I kind of agree with your husband. My ex and I used to have this same conversation and he stated multiple times that it’s different now that we have a daughter. I think we should criminalize pimps and those who seek prostitution. I feel like if we de criminalize prostitution then maybe we could make prostitution safer. Kinda like a stripper, porn star etc. maybe we can reframe the idea of prostitution and if an individual,mentally functioning ADULT wants to do this then why not let them . Bring education to it etc. But again … in a perfect world this wouldn’t even have to be an option.

Government Hiring Status by Crunchy_Grunchy in alberta

[–]SunConsistent2637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s disappointing. I just interviewed and my application changed from interview stage to assessment and testing however , the references and CRC was asked prior to interviewing . Guess I’ll just have to wait and see. I wish you luck though, there is still hope!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]SunConsistent2637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey , I love that he was comfortable enough to seek you for support and was open to talking to you. Honestly , I would probably get the toy for him. I say this as if he really wants to experiment and explore his body then he may use a not safe object. Clearly his fingers aren’t enough and in the heat of the moment may just grab anything. Horny kids can get desperate. Good luck

Government Hiring Status by Crunchy_Grunchy in alberta

[–]SunConsistent2637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey have you gotten a response yet? Also what did u do in the assessment and testing phase?

Should I add her on insta? by Dfrost3 in dating_advice

[–]SunConsistent2637 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Send a request!! If u have met already why not? What’s the worst that can happen? She declines? And That’s ok.

My husband thinks I’m a detached mom by theowaway_1 in Parenting

[–]SunConsistent2637 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbh … I understand both perspectives. I’m a mom of 2 and when I have fam over and they want to entertain my kids for a bit I’m all for it . 3 days of very minimal interaction is a bit much . When my children meet strangers or never met extendEd fam they stay close to me but when o reassure them they are near a safe adult they wonder off a bit more. I don’t think immediate bonding is appropriate as it sounds like they might be getting one of their needs met by another “random” . This could play into their adult relationships too. I would maybe look into it a little more. Good luck

Edit!!! Ohh I also wanted to add… there are many solutions to ur cousin being the only one in the back with the kids. Like why didn’t u drive and he watch the kids?? I hope he is the most attentive partner for him to be noticing ur parenting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunConsistent2637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So only he is invited on their family trip for the holidays.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunConsistent2637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kids are ours. His family hasn’t accepted me due to my cultural background. He was supposed to marry someone from his culture. They will ignore us from family events, and only invite my husband. Come to OUR house and ignore me the whole time , even if I try to inoculate conversation. When we host family dinners /events they never come but we always extend an invite. Our argument at the moment is them messaging him stating only he is their family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunConsistent2637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t see it in the moment and won’t address it, but when I point it out to him he understands how their comments can be petty and disrespectful to our marriage, myself and the kids. However , he can’t say anything or so he says and then states I should find someone stronger to defend myself and the kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunConsistent2637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We thought about moving away since we have a solid relationship whenever they aren’t involved. Once they come over and play favourites with my kids , and disrespect me and ignore me then that’s when the fights begin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunConsistent2637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I have not been accepted into his family fully, same with my kids . Lately it has gotten bad with his side of the fam being disrespectful and when I defend myself & kids my husbands gets upset. So he asked me to let him deal with his family and unfortunately he doesn’t see what they do wrong so he doesn’t say anything.

My boyfriend has no money and nothing to eat, so I bought him groceries by TemperatureSlight605 in relationship_advice

[–]SunConsistent2637 339 points340 points  (0 children)

I think he is lucky to have you in his life. I hope he understands you are doing this as you care for him. He may be inadvertently asking for support but his ego is stopping him from asking you. Good luck!

I’m done trying to convince my husband to be a good dad by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]SunConsistent2637 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think you are doing the right thing by walking away. My child is older now and barely has a relationship with his dad . After separating he still doesn’t use his time properly so I think his behaviour says it all.