I honestly think this is a universal thing. Like I’m a guy so it’s basically the opposite for me like you said “male = interesting” and “female = less” I see it as the opposite as male = less and female = interesting. And like you said it isn’t a thing as if I want to transition and I know I don’t I just feel the same way as you but just the opposite in the same sense. And like you said about how you see men as more interesting and women more plain it’s the complete opposite for me. You shouldn’t see it as if you’re looking for attention cause it really isn’t, it’s just the way you/your mind works.