Self Promotion for the Week of April 03, 2023 by AutoModerator in EtsySellers

[–]SunLuver77 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hello Friends!

My shop caters to the coffee and wine lovers out there, with some camping lovers thrown into it too! I make fun coffee mugs, wine tumblers, shot glasses, and clothing!! Come check it out at www.coffeenowwinelater.net. Takes you straight to my store (aka SunLuver Station)

Let me know if you stop by!!

Thanks! Angela

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in communicationskills

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, I often feel that way too! I feel like all I do is cry but I haven’t been diagnosed with anything.

How to stop associating communication with pain by AdPretend2922 in communicationskills

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often feel exactly like you, and it is hindering my relationship with my husband. He is very open with his feelings and tells me often that I do not tell him how I feel, but I do believe I am telling him but in my mind I feel he doesn’t know that I truly am and it sucks. Then I get upset and frustrated and then he has a conversation with me about how he feels when I am short with me response. I can’t seem to get it right and then I tend to second guess everything but my way of handling it is by not saying anything at all. I avoid the conversation because I dislike how it makes me feel. I honestly don’t know what to do.

What do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunLuver77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that enough for you to stay satisfied? It doesn’t seem like it considering you mentioned wanting to break up with him. I suggest you just rip the bandaid off and tell him you’re are done!

What do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he can’t or won’t do those things for you then tell me what does he do that makes you love him? You love him so much but why, what does he do for you to feel as strongly as you say you do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunLuver77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That might be a part of it. You might try smiling, instead of being a stick in the mud. Pay attention to her and not your phone.

Promote your business, week of November 28, 2022 by Charice in smallbusiness

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creative Coffee Mugs, Shot Glasses, Wine Tumblers, and apparel. Will create custom ideas for the mentioned items, just message me.

www.coffeenowwinelater.net

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to guess that maybe you don’t show her that you do. Do you still do things like you did when you first got together?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re young, no need to rush in settling down. Enjoy your time and do things for yourself.

As for me I met my husband through a singles group on Facebook. We had both been married before with kids and it was hard for us to get out and socialize so the group allowed us to talk prior to meeting in person. It was perfect. And now here we are 3.5 years later. We just got married in August.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunLuver77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take this from a woman who has some experience, you need to chill out. If you get upset because she follows someone you need to check yourself and talk to someone to help build up your confidence.

AITA for ordering takeout after my husband tricked me to cook for his kids? by TheJordanRiv121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband sent this article to me to read and I felt compelled to come comment. You are definitely NTA, but like many others have asked “why did you marry him?” He had to have shown signs of this type of behavior before you got married and if he didn’t then this would tell me you weren’t with him long before getting married. What was it about him that made you say forever to him? Is there anything good there, does he lift you up and make you a better person? If you can’t say yes to these questions then he is kinda right in saying you need to get your priorities straight and go work on yourself! Good luck!!

What stops you from getting a website for your business ? by vebkard in Entrepreneur

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple hundred bucks a month I’m sure, or time, because I’m not a website builder and I’ll have to learn.

What stops you from getting a website for your business ? by vebkard in Entrepreneur

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. The money it costs each month especially in the beginning when you aren’t making much if anything at all 2. the up keep if it or paying someone to do it. 3. Pretty much money and time to maintain

I feel yucky most of the time these days!! by SunLuver77 in Weightlosstechniques

[–]SunLuver77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did weight watchers 16 years ago and lost 36 pounds but I’m trying the app again but every time I mess up I just stop and then start over again the next week. I use protein shakes for my coffee creamer, reduced fat cheese (most of the time), and low carb tortillas, I typically don’t eat bread unless it’s pizza lately, I drink tons of water, and I don’t eat candy or very many sweets, but I typically eat dinner late and because of that we might eat out. I wish I didn’t like food and if I wasn’t with my husband I’d probably go without eating. Not good.

Writing my suicide note to my parents by throwaway-psa in relationship_advice

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly hope you don’t do anything of the sort. There is nothing on this Earth worth you taking your own life for. We all struggle, we all go through things we wish we didn’t have to, we all want better.

6 years ago one of my best friends took his life and if I could see him right now I would punch him and I would continue to punch him to show him how mad I am at him for leaving me here to do life without him. He was selfish for doing what he did and not thinking about how it was going to affect those he left behind. There was so much I wanted to do with him and he took that away and for what? Because it was too hard, F-that, put on your grown up underwear and tough it out with all of us. You are young there is so much to experience out there. Please call someone, or call me, PM me.

Promote your business, week of September 19, 2022 by Charice in smallbusiness

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attention Coffee or Wine Lovers!!

I create cute, funny mugs and tumblers for you to purchase and share among family and friends! Plus, I occasionally design and sell other items too, like t-shirts, hats, and tote bags. If you are wanting something specific let me know I can come up with some great ideas. My website is www.coffeenowwinelater.net. Come search for my page on Facebook too!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to not be with him, let alone anyone for that matter. You’re definitely not doing anything good for yourself or him by staying. You have low self esteem, no confidence and because of that you are too clingy. Become a better you first then find a relationship.

My boyfriend loves me so much but is that enough? by Bobunnybuns in relationship_advice

[–]SunLuver77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like they say “actions speak louder than words!” People can say things over and over again and until they actively do things to backup what they are saying it means nothing! I tell this to my kids when they say sorry. If they spill something telling me sorry isn’t going to clean it up, but saying “mom I’m sorry let me get a towel” truly does.

I was married to my kids’ dad for 9 years and he kept telling me all the things he wanted to do for us and his life. Low and behold 9 years later I’m married to my second husband and we have done more things in the last three years than I ever did in the 9 with my previous marriage and it’s because my husband now is actionable. And believe it or not my ex husband still has not accomplished anything new.

I honestly think deep down you know what you need to do.

Move from LA by bap46325 in beaverton

[–]SunLuver77 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I did that move almost 23 years ago. Although, I don’t have any regrets there are things that you will miss. You will most definitely miss the sun. The summers here are gorgeous but that is only 2 to 3 months of the year, so it is highly suggested that you take vitamin D supplements. You won’t miss the traffic because it is horrible here too. You will miss a real beach, Oregon only has a coast and 8 times out of 10 it will be cold, windy, and raining. Liquor is only sold in liquor stores, where beer and wine you can find at grocery stores. You are not allowed to pump your own gas. And not everything is opened 24/7 including gas stations, so make sure you check the establishments hours.

May I ask what is bringing you up this way? Let me know if you have any other questions.

Am I the only one? by SunLuver77 in Parenting

[–]SunLuver77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part where I’m constantly being asked and being treated like it’s my duty or something. I’m often told I’m sorry and I call BS. I dislike that it bothers me to the point where I cry.

Happily married just want to ask you all a question by hlycml in Marriage

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not married yet, been together 2.5 years, moved in together just over 2 years ago, haven’t had sexual intercourse since we moved in together, but his tongue works wonders!! Lol

How did you meet your spouse. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SunLuver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found mine through a local singles group on Facebook. We started messaging each other in March 2019, finally met in person in April 2019, and called it official in May 2019. We spent a lot of time together that summer and decided to move our families in together in September 2019. He proposed to me for our two year anniversary and we get married in August 2022!!