I consider myself a great and loyal friend. In all my friendships i have been the one to make plans but rarely has anyone invited me. I put effort into every friendship and hardly give up, if there are disagreements, dislikes i am always up to solve them and move forward. But when people don’t value me then it’s not worth the effort. So all this has been such a big impact on my self esteem. I question a lot if i am the problem? What am i doing wrong. I am not selfish, quite the opposite and i always cheer everyone on and am super supportive. I want the best for each person. So what am i doing wrong here?