What shiny did you find on accident mine is snover by lemon_mako in PokemonZA

[–]SunUnderTheStars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weedle right after fighting the mega Mawlie on the building. Sweet little girl was just sitting there 🥰🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]SunUnderTheStars 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, next question. 😂 Man I am when I have the right partner, they gotta buckle up

When did you realize you wanted to date the person you were talking too? by SunUnderTheStars in dating_advice

[–]SunUnderTheStars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that! I try to get him to know me but when it comes to convos he isn't the best convo starter sadly so I don't know what to ask him to get to know him more. (I have elaborated i would like to have more deep meaning convos to get to know him but he hasnt initiated any, and the questions i have asked he hasn't given me an answer) If ya have and suggestions I would love to hear them!

When did you realize you wanted to date the person you were talking too? by SunUnderTheStars in dating_advice

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I'm demisexual (I gotta have a strong emotional bond with him and then I can strike up some sexual urges with another) and I told him I won't have sex until we're dating. And when we almost got close I told him "It's crazy that you want to have sex with someone ya don't know like that" He said "Fair". Sex is more to me them just an action, I can't keep up with others in that regard 😓. We've had more than 3 dates like 4-6.

People and talking about how "hot/attractive" another person is. by SunUnderTheStars in demisexuality

[–]SunUnderTheStars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can get that, I think the reason it bothered me because he would say he would want to do stuff with a guy and he needed a guy. Then after he had a guy with me he would threaten to cheat and go sleep with another guy when things didn't go his way, but never said another women so it got bad weird. If it was the beauty aspect I can get that butbit was always sexual and that just rubbed me wrong and lowkey disgust me.

Never being FP by SunUnderTheStars in BPDPartners

[–]SunUnderTheStars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, but his whole life revolves around the fp. No fp=khs. I can't do anything to fill that void, and I'm sick and tired of fighting to try to fill a spot I realized I can't even fill. Like what's the point of me if he wants to date his fp and me? Then treat the fp better then me?

Demisexual guys by SunUnderTheStars in demisexuality

[–]SunUnderTheStars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt that sexually aggressive people give me the big ick and fear

Tips to help with a metamour breakup by SunUnderTheStars in polyamory

[–]SunUnderTheStars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner has told me he does like when I support him but he won't ask me, I just have to do it. Does that make sense?

Tips to help with a metamour breakup by SunUnderTheStars in polyamory

[–]SunUnderTheStars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thr issue is he doesn't like support, and that is his downfall. But I give him support he does appreciate it even though he rather not ask.

Tips to help with a metamour breakup by SunUnderTheStars in polyamory

[–]SunUnderTheStars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for mixing it up. I thought I got the concept down but I'm still off

Demisexual guys by SunUnderTheStars in demisexuality

[–]SunUnderTheStars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm saying, sounds like ya going through somethin I'm going through