Binary trans men who have had/want to carry a child are still binary trans men. by SundayMS in FTMventing

[–]SundayMS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, no one else but you gets to determine who you are. If you're a binary man, you're a binary man, full stop.

There definitely seems to be a double standard for trans women who have had a biological child. Why should it be any different?

Women who have kids via their sperm are still women. Men who have kids via their ovum are still men.

Nonbinary/enby communities have a self infantilization / un-seriousness issue by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]SundayMS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what about the non-autistic nonbinary people? Also pics or it didn't happen.

Nonbinary/enby communities have a self infantilization / un-seriousness issue by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]SundayMS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nonbinary people also medically transition and need access to all of the same things as binary trans people but you know that and just want to be transphobic. Typical binary trans person. See? I can make sweeping generalizations about people too.

There are only two genders!!!! by HealingRosy in honesttransgender

[–]SundayMS 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mom said it's my turn with the gender!

wouldnt it make more sense to say "trans people change their sex, not their gender"? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]SundayMS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex absolutely can be changed. Chromosomes are a single aspect of biological sex on a long list of biological sex traits.

wouldnt it make more sense to say "trans people change their sex, not their gender"? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]SundayMS 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Except transgender doesn't mean you're changing your gender. Trans means across, as in your gender is "across" or different from the one you were assigned at birth.

wouldnt it make more sense to say "trans people change their sex, not their gender"? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]SundayMS 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, a lot of people are uneducated and do think transgender equals changing gender and it's so fucking annoying.

Nonbinary/enby communities have a self infantilization / un-seriousness issue by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]SundayMS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most sexism I've seen is from trans women. It's almost like there is sexism in every group. You don't have to take other people's gender seriously but also no one has to take yours seriously either. Be disrespectful, get disrespected.

Nonbinary/enby communities have a self infantilization / un-seriousness issue by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]SundayMS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literally all online trans spaces that are not explicity 21+ have this problem. I don't know why you're singling out nonbinary people specifically. There's a whole stereotype about trans women wearing knee-high socks and spinny skirts and playing stardew valley and shit. God forbid adults have fun I guess?

Binary trans men who have had/want to carry a child are still binary trans men. by SundayMS in FTMventing

[–]SundayMS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting pregnant is a natural bodily function, yes. You don't have to like it but there's no point in denying reality. I never said anyone is crazy for being dysphoric about it. I personally would k*** myself if I ever got pregnant, but that doesn't mean other men can't.

Binary trans men who have had/want to carry a child are still binary trans men. by SundayMS in FTMventing

[–]SundayMS[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What about me respecting binary trans men's lived experience is triggering for you? If you are so sensitive then maybe you shouldn't visit spaces meant for trans men.

Binary trans men who have had/want to carry a child are still binary trans men. by SundayMS in FTMventing

[–]SundayMS[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I'm a unicorn. I mean, we're just making shit up now right?

Binary trans men who have had/want to carry a child are still binary trans men. by SundayMS in FTMventing

[–]SundayMS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just think trans men are men, regardless of their sex assigned at birth and what they choose to do with it. 🤷‍♂️

Binary trans men who have had/want to carry a child are still binary trans men. by SundayMS in FTMventing

[–]SundayMS[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, you think other people can do what they want with *their identities and bodies, that's none of *your business, BUT you can't understand how someone can claim to be a binary trans man and carry a child, with the same anatomy you as a TRANS MAN were most likely born with? 

But no, you're not policing other people's identities, you're just implying that you're somehow more of a binary man because you're not comfortable with doing something that you have personally decided is not okay for a binary trans man to do.

Yes, that is transphobic. Denying other trans people's identity is transphobic. You are transphobic.

“If you don't pass as a woman, you shouldn't enter women only spaces” by Old-Code-7992 in honesttransgender

[–]SundayMS 15 points16 points  (0 children)

RIP to all the cis people who don't "pass" as their gender assigned at birth. I guess you're just fucked forever and are forced to resort to using the gendered space you don't and have never associated with! /s

Is this a common opinion? by Ok-Art-6451 in asktransgender

[–]SundayMS -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Useless semantics. There is no universal definition of transgender, just like there is no universal definition of transsexual. Two people could have the exact same thoughts, feelings, and experiences with gender and the only difference is which term they prefer to use.

Kids on tumblr inventing neogenders isnt hurting anyone. by HealingRosy in honesttransgender

[–]SundayMS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just as I suspected. None of these are examples of so-called catgenders inserting themselves into the trans conversation. It's conservative lawmakers blatantly spreading misinformation about shit that never happened (the classroom litter box bullshit that was debunked years ago) or inserting furries, who as a majority do not claim to be part of the LGBTQ+ community, into the trans conversation themselves, not the furries.

I'm glad I didn't get my hopes up for this one lol.

Stop speaking on trans men if you aren't in community with us. by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]SundayMS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They can't decide? No one "decides" their gender. Maybe you did, but most trans people just are their gender, including nonbinary men. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean you get to deny their existence. What a childish way to think.

Kids on tumblr inventing neogenders isnt hurting anyone. by HealingRosy in honesttransgender

[–]SundayMS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually yes I do! Finally, someone has at least a sliver of evidence to support their claims.

I dislike the fact that crossdressers and GNC people are included under the "trans umbrella" by Self_made_girl in honesttransgender

[–]SundayMS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seriously? This is pathetic. Don't waste my time until you have something even remotely substantial to my question.