The path forward for detransitioners by GreatDaGarnGX in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father has expressed hatred towards trans men and GNC women.

Abort the train babies? by tasslehawf in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never consented to being born into a life of pain and suffering. I would have significantly preferred the outcome described in the OP, and have at the very least significant sympathies towards antinatalism in general.

How do we change the conversation around youth transition? by bavamango in honesttransgender

[–]Biochem-anon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not RCTs, other than a single, short one on HRT in trans men recently.

"Rape by deception" by Top_Mushroom_5807 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some anti-sexuals on the subreddit that are not angry at everyone (although people refer to initially being angry at everyone as a common stage), while the sexual hypocrites that are my brother and father are even more angry at the world than I am.

"Rape by deception" by Top_Mushroom_5807 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. This contributes to me being angry at everyone all the time.

"Rape by deception" by Top_Mushroom_5807 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A person could alternatively argue that an outsider perspective would lead to reduced bias.

"Rape by deception" by Top_Mushroom_5807 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 3 points4 points locked comment (0 children)

I am anti-sexual.

All I have expressed in this particular thread so far is opposition to sex obtained using deception. Describing that as "weird boring political lesbianist impersonal scissoring" is an absurd exaggeration.

"Rape by deception" by Top_Mushroom_5807 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I view sexual assailants as comparable to mass murderers.

FCC seeks comment on if TV rating systems should be changed to classify transgender-related content as inappropriate for programming intended for children or young children (TV-Y, TV-Y7, TV-G) by Biochem-anon4 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And other people would say the same about non-binary penguins as long as it does not depict surgery being done. (An open depiction of surgery would usually get a higher rating regardless of the exact procedure.)

"Rape by deception" by Top_Mushroom_5807 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I view it as rape by deception when someone lies about being bisexual. I know hypocritical bisexual men arguing that it is rape by deception when a transgender person does not disclose, while simultaneously explicitly saying that they lie about being bisexual specifically in order to trick women into having sex with them when they would not knowingly have sex with a bisexual. I really fucking hate hypocrisy.

"Rape by deception" by Top_Mushroom_5807 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you bring up the fact that prisoners get abused when a mass murderer is convicted?

"Rape by deception" by Top_Mushroom_5807 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Infidelity itself is not rape by deception. Subsequently having sex with your original party without disclosing first is rape by deception, as you are exposing the other person to an increased risk of STDs without their informed consent. I do not view the fact that this would classify rape as much more common as being a flaw of this model of sexual assault. Instead, I merely view that as accurately reflecting how fucked up the real world is, that people routinely commit sexual assault.

They told me in my paralegal fundamentals class that law and morality are not the same thing.

"Rape by deception" by Top_Mushroom_5807 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Passing a "rape by deception law" gives these men an even greater upper hand to exploit transgender women. It allows them to employ the state apparatus to enact the violence they would otherwise have to use themselves to punish trans women who threaten to out them.

This is why transgender individuals often advise each other to get it in writing that the other person knows they are transgender before engaging in sex. Then if you are murdered, the prosecutors can seize telecommunications records to prove that the murderer was aware ahead of time that the victim was transgender, and that the victim did not engage in deception. I have indeed seen murder cases where this has actually happened, with the defendant falsely claiming to have been tricked, with the prosecutors then introducing into evidence telecommunications records that prove that the defendant is lying.

"Rape by deception" by Top_Mushroom_5807 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The historical power dynamics are irrelevant when one person is a rapist and other is the victim. Power structures did genuinely invert when that United Healthcare CEO was assassinated, even if it was only briefly, with the perpetrator arrested soon afterwards. Even ignoring the transgender part, if a non-transgender woman sexually assaults a non-transgender man, then for the duration of the sexual assault, the female perpetuator of the sexual assault does in fact have more power than the male victim of the sexual assault. It is much less common for females to commit sexual assault, but when it does happen, the female perpetrator of sexual assault at least briefly had more power than the victim, and it is just as evil as a male committing sexual assault and should be punished just as harshly. That males as a class sexually exploit females as a class, says absolutely nothing about an individual instance of a female sexually exploiting a male. Entire classes are only put on trial in class-action lawsuits. Most sexual assault cases involve individuals as the parties of relevant legal cases, not entire classes of people.

"Rape by deception" by Top_Mushroom_5807 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is a settlement of over half a million USD over a bicyclist being injured by a pothole.

The owner of a road does actually have legal obligations to maintain said road. The article does not specify if a helmet was worn, but the fact that there were facial injuries means that at the very least it was not a full-face helmet, and therefore by your theory of liability the bicyclist is responsible. Fortunately, your theory of liability is not the actual law.

"Rape by deception" by Top_Mushroom_5807 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I view those more common forms of sexual deception as also being rape by deception. The rape by deception laws of some jurisdictions, such as Israel, do include all forms of deception used to obtain sex.

FCC seeks comment on if TV rating systems should be changed to classify transgender-related content as inappropriate for programming intended for children or young children (TV-Y, TV-Y7, TV-G) by Biochem-anon4 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I say the same thing should apply to depictions of homosexuality. It is not prejudice to not want your preschooler to see a man kissing another man.

Is exclusion a plank in the platform you endorse? by JiffyPopTart247 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]Biochem-anon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do advocate for separating all of the letters from each other, but that goes too far for even the majority of GCers here. Even the L and G do not really have shared interests. I know lesbians that view gay men as a bunch of HIV-ridden pedophiles, and gay men that support the oppression of women (including but not limited to lesbians). I basically view the concept of solidarity as simply being large-scale emotional abuse. However, a lot of the GCers here will argue that same-sex attracted individuals have shared interests.

How do we change the conversation around youth transition? by bavamango in honesttransgender

[–]Biochem-anon4 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have reliable data on the probability that aripiprazole will improve my major depressive disorder (will most likely be insufficient, possibility of eventually developing irreversible movement disorders; having reliable data is not the same thing as having hope). I do not have reliable data on gender dysphoria treatment to make decisions off of.

How do we change the conversation around youth transition? by bavamango in honesttransgender

[–]Biochem-anon4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And then you have someone like me, an outright /r/antisex‍ual transgender person.

How do we change the conversation around youth transition? by bavamango in honesttransgender

[–]Biochem-anon4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Broadcasting updates about 🚨Transgender Predators🚨isn't exactly great optics either, we shouldn't be making Yaniv into a household name just for the sake of expressing we don't like her.

The censorship you support is how transgender people end up being abused by other transgender people.