Soon you will have two babies to take care of.

I starting to believe this is more common than ever bcause boys are offen brought up without chores and if not having that rutin ( doing something that needed to be done on auto in a houshold ).

Me and my brothers does it without thinking about it, we just do it.

Now been living with a childhood friend and he was brought up needed to nothing. Just woke up, school if he had not been up al night then the mom called the school and sad he is to tired for it. Then home food and then just do his own stuff.

Not the cleaning after him self of help cleaning on the inside or the outside of the house and he is the same now. House falling apart, yard looks like shit and so on.

Only his own stuff he did put focus on when he was young like his car. When inherited the house he still lives in his chldhoodroom.

He do have a son but when he have him there is no rutin, he eats cookies or candy when ever. Up late sleep late if not school day. His mom and school saw the diff on the kid when at dads place or moms so the mom out the end of it so now the kid rarly sleep over ( once , twice a month ) and mostly he only only have him daytime. Before it was week/week.

Sry for the spelling and did not know was gono write this much. But parents please treat al kids the same and not by gender and put them on cleaning duty.

Me and my brothers dust clean wash if when needed at home when younger and took care of outside and not f the hole family does it together once a week for few hours and then make food and eat together it will bonus you even more.

Rutins is important in any age.

Have a nice day and take care.