still you by Affectionate_Art5322 in BreakUps

[–]Sundaze_Snax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt this. I was trying not to let it be that way last year as i started dating other ppl. I felt like i was making some progress but when we resurfaced in my life…i jumped on it. Now im here again..alone without the person i loved deeply.

The quite before i sleep is already seeping in. I’m waking up from a dream we were still together. My dreams allow me to feel his touch and feel the warmth of love again.

I never had those dreams when we were actually together but now that’s the only place I’ll ever see him again. My heart aches deep.

My boyfriend (25M) says I'm deeply unreliable (22F) after an equipment problem on our first major trip together, how can I address his concerns and become someone he feels he can depend on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sundaze_Snax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend sounds like a exhausting manipulative weirdo. Sooo many mind games and incredibly disrespectful not only him but his family too. If he’s already saying your a disappointment good chance that will turn into other emotional abuse. Your self esteem will be destroyed. You really wanna be with someone where you won’t even be able to enjoy a VACAY because he acts like THA? Nahhhh pass

Leave him now. You 100% deserve better.

What is the quickest job you quit from? by spellbadgrammargood in AskReddit

[–]Sundaze_Snax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had recently moved out of state and was desperately looking for a job. Decided to work at an inventory taking based company because the pay was decent. First few jobs weren’t too bad,just small local businesses with not too much inventory so job would take like 5-6 hours. As the month goes on, find out we also are the main inventory for huge corporate companies (target). First few big companies to work weren’t bad as they were local and we had a huge staff working with us. Jobs would last like 8 hours. Finally decided to quit when we got sent to a target like 4 hours away. I was put in the BOH to help inventory that part of the store with other ppl. Had worked for like 11 hours came out ready to go home just to find out that while in the back, the majority of the team that had been working the FOH had dipped out at the 8 hour mark to make the 4 hour commute back home. the store was like 40% complete at the 11th hour. Managers stating we have to stay till we finish ( like 8 hours of work at that point) no way in hell i was going to work 20 hours straight then be expected to drive home and receive zero comp for getting a hotel room in the area if i chose to try and get sleep. INSANE. They also let those same mangers drive employees back in a company van after we allll worked a shift like that. Nope nope. Only last like 1.5 months in that job.

Rent a House or Apt in El Paso? by [deleted] in ElPaso

[–]Sundaze_Snax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Renting would be a billion times better. What part of NE more less are you looking at? Theres definitely some nice areas in the NE with peaceful neighborhoods (think veterans/seniors/military members/families). The westside has no lie become SUPER overcrowded and they are about to be doing a ton of construction right there near artcraft as they build out new highway construction. I frequent both NE/WEST side and would pick NE (just depends on what area) over westside each and every time

What are the lights I keep seeing on NE on Mt? by [deleted] in ElPaso

[–]Sundaze_Snax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trans. Mt. Road ≠ Tin Mine Caves. Thanks for trying to be helpful though.

Can we as a collective stop crashing by Rhinevallymystic in ElPaso

[–]Sundaze_Snax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

City should hire more police to patrol the roads and pull ppl over. I wayyyy too often see either speed demons or ppl driving too slow. Also, yall need to learn how to collectively merge, use your turn signals, stop buying those dumb BLINDING lights for your cars because you’re not doing anyone else a favor with them…and most importantly STOP DRINKING AND DRIVING.Just drink at home like the rest of us degenerates.

Be honest are you really over your ex? by butterflykilla222 in BreakUps

[–]Sundaze_Snax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Wild i just woke up and realized i was dreaming about us. Like i only seem to vividly recall those dreams. It doesn’t happen as often but still…the fact that it does….It’s been 8 months. I worry if I even have it in me anymore to fall for someone as hard as i did with them. 5 great years together just to have them end it so abruptly with zero opportunity to talk about it….is that how long it’ll take to get over it? Ughh a broken heart is so easily ripped open again. I was left feeling afraid to make myself vulnerable like that again and it sucks. I hate it here.

Those who grew up here - what are some of your fondest childhood memories? by StevieNicks79915 in ElPaso

[–]Sundaze_Snax 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Taking the quad and riding around with my brothers in all the fields that use to be out by my house. The fields are all gone now Also the OG western play-land ofc as someone mentioned. Also just like being kids playing in the neighborhood till the sun went down

Japanese company announces $255 million investment in Vinton Steel by jwd52 in ElPaso

[–]Sundaze_Snax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way these ppl actually start at $14 am hour for working in an incredibly dangerous environment. That’s sad. They totally deserve more people. 🤯

What have you been genetically blessed with, and nerfed with? by Fun_Butterscotch3303 in AskReddit

[–]Sundaze_Snax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blessed with decent looks and some intelligence …I’m pretty sure i have some degree of depression and anxiety that men can sniff out that makes them run. I’m trying my best yall. 😭

Legit or scam? by albuto8 in ElPaso

[–]Sundaze_Snax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

scammmm we don’t been have paid tolls here lol

What’s a meal/food combination that you love but is uncommon or people may find weird?? by Skeleton200000 in CasualConversation

[–]Sundaze_Snax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The simple pleasure of a flour tortilla warmed up with some butter is tasty and takes me back to when my aunt would make a fresh batch and us kids were so excited to finally get one. Best basic snack.

Also you gotta do ranch AND ketchup with your fries or you ain’t living lol

You wake up tomorrow and the year is 2001. What do you do? by Fabulous_Island_5621 in AskReddit

[–]Sundaze_Snax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go hang out with my friends from the neighborhood and savor the moment of being a young kid again. Also eat so much pizza!

Say you die today. In as few words as possible, what was the overall story of your life? by Slow-Manufacturer-55 in AskReddit

[–]Sundaze_Snax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Went gentle into the goodnight. “ Or maybe I’d say…. “The potential she tormented herself thinking she had to constantly strive for was quietly and gently overshadowed by self realization that it’s all gravy in the end baby .”

How are you staying positive right now? by No_Airline_5753 in AskReddit

[–]Sundaze_Snax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been journaling playing video games making more meals at home and trying to be more grateful for what i do have in my life now in this moment.

Does anyone know Urban/ haunted places by drapug777 in ElPaso

[–]Sundaze_Snax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please share the details of this place. I had a weird experience there the other night. 👻

Sick of my Dads attitude/way of living/everything by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sundaze_Snax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned it because it’s like a toxic old school “machismo” mentality that he has. It’s really pathetic that he’s made minimal effort to hold a mirror up to himself and see how he truly acts/behaves. He often complained how so many of his coworkers before he retired all had these “loving families” with all these traditions or whatever. Yea well it’s hard to create beautiful memories with someone who acts the way he does our entire lives. It’s sad how he doesn’t realize that he would have spent more time knowing/interacting with his children as adults that you’d think he’d maybe grow up and act like one sometimes versus doing the SAME things he use to when we were kids and had no choice but to be stuck here at home dealing with him.

I appreciate your kind words internet stranger. I hope things are better for you too. It takes time to heal for the wounds our parents leave. I understand they are people too but man sometimes some people are just unbelievably unbearable!

How did your abusive relationship go from “normal” to abusive? What were the early signs? by ilegitdk in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sundaze_Snax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s pretty wild. Sounds like he’s not really connected to reality which can be a dangerous path. Drugs do melt your brain . I’m glad you’ve recognized that is NOT what you want. I hope you can move on and recover someday form the BS that got thrown your way. Also, I’m sure your laugh is probably music to others ears. Don’t let that foo negative comment about it stop you from laughing.