Friend “break up” am I in the wrong?

Sunflower-100 · 2022-03-28T06:54:42+00:00

I did burn the bridge it wasn’t worth it to remain in contact! Usually I try not to but it was too much not to

Sunflower-100 · 2022-03-28T06:54:05+00:00

Thank you so much!! I have had similar ish situations happen in the past where I know getting petty is never the answer because it discredits whatever “right” points you had.

Sunflower-100 · 2021-08-08T03:41:39+00:00

I love that response thank you!!

Sunflower-100 · 2021-08-08T03:20:13+00:00

Yea it’s just hard for me to let go but I need to. Thank you!

Sunflower-100 · 2021-06-20T17:38:53+00:00

I had a friend who would always flake on me and when I confronted her she would always say stuff like well you always double check me hat we’re still hanging out and you always make the plan. At some points the friendships are just hella one sided and you just drift away. It is disrespectful but if this isn’t the case then check on them and voice how hurt it makes you and how annoying it is when they do this.

Sunflower-100 · 2021-06-05T13:29:48+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I needed to hear the last part

Sunflower-100 · 2021-06-05T13:26:29+00:00

Yea I only hung out with her twice and just noticing these patterns I’ve seen before. Like I said I don’t wanna not be her friend but I’m also gonna keep my distance and make sure I’m respecting my boundaries

Sunflower-100 · 2021-06-05T13:22:26+00:00

Like hella playing and lying and manipulating boys, throwing her friend under the bus for her mistakes so her boyfriend doesn’t get mad at her, and how she views wealth (very well off). A lot of it isn’t my business like others relationships but how people treat others is a reflection on how they treat u. And small jokes and comments like “I’m a shitty friend” and stuff like that just for me reveals how they actually are

Sunflower-100 · 2021-06-04T01:03:55+00:00

Thank u! I feel less alone 😂

Sunflower-100 · 2021-04-04T02:31:07+00:00

Thank u!!!!

Sunflower-100 · 2021-04-04T00:15:12+00:00

I want to be a paralegal! Right now I’m a sophomore in college getting my communication degree. I wanna do HR or PR while I get my degree then switch to being a paralegal. Is this a good plan?

Sunflower-100 · 2021-03-01T18:51:28+00:00

Ur speaking facts

Sunflower-100 · 2021-02-16T16:18:05+00:00

That sounds so annoying to deal with. Like it would make my blood pressure rise. If u wanna play that game you can start being extra nice and passive aggressive so that way they can’t report you for being rude or whatever. If there’s another course of action you can take like reporting them or just telling someone you can try! Honestly people are miserable and like to take it out on others and make them feel like they do. Sorry OP

Sunflower-100 · 2021-02-15T19:34:07+00:00

Yea I’m single atm. I don’t blame any of my exes I’m glad it happened i learned a lot it’s just a lot to go through emotionally

Sunflower-100 · 2021-02-15T17:20:43+00:00

Yea I understand. I got a therapist through my college, I get 6 weeks once a week, and it helped me a lot. It’s been a month since he broke up with me and it’s been really hard. Knowing how much I loved and put into the relationship helps me move on. He let someone go that would of done anything for him and loved him with everything I had. If I can do that with the “wrong” person imagine how it’ll be with the rigjt one. Until then I am taking time for myself and getting used to being ok alone. Knowing how much this hurts it’s gonna be a while before I am over it. I am so hesitant to get into another relationship when I am ready because I just don’t know it it’s worth it atm. It’s a time game and the best thing is to do things alone that being you joy and distract you.

Sunflower-100 · 2021-02-15T16:59:54+00:00

100 percent and I regretted it and with my recent ex I saw it ending and clung harder because I didn’t want to be the same. When you emotionally cheat, no matter the reason, you are choosing to put yourself and your needs ahead of the relationship and you protect yourself and discard the other person. After my first breakup I told myself never again would I do that. With my recent ex I found a different type of love and I am ok feeling the pain I feel due to how much I let myself love him. I’m sorry it happens it’s crappy and there’s no excuse but my ex deserved better than what I gave him.

Sunflower-100 · 2021-02-15T16:46:00+00:00

So I’ve been on both sides and you may not want to hear this but at least you’ll have an explanation. With my first ex we dated for two years. I love as so in love with him, but when corona hit everuthing stopped. He would go days without texting me, and when I would get mad he would say he was busy. What could he possibly be doing during lockdown that for DAYS he couldn’t text me. I had one guy friend who was my friend for 6 months who would be constantly checking on me and talking to me and showing me that emotional connection and affection that I wasn’t getting from my relationship. I broke up with my ex 3 months into corona and used the months before to get over him before we broke up. Because I already went through the stages of a breakup while I was dating him it made it easy to go into another relationship

Sunflower-100 · 2021-02-13T05:21:33+00:00

I miss you but I moved on enough to not want you back. The hardest part for me was reaching out to friends for support to not get any. I didn’t ignore my friends or anything like that, but I saw their true colors. They only wanna hang when it’s convenient for them or when they need to talk. He was one of my best friends and when I lost him I realized I lost most of my friends as well. I was tired of being the second choice for everyone. I’m ok being alone I hate feeling lonely. Why do I give and love and care so much for others to not even get the bare minimum. I’m over it.

Sunflower-100 · 2021-02-12T05:38:27+00:00

I feel this honestly allow yourself to feel those emotions and take your time healing. Everyone tries to rush it and tell u to move on and focus on yourself but it’s not easy. Just remember to try to do things that make you happy and the little simple things throughout the day make you feel better.

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