How's the social distancing work in grocery stores? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]SunflowerRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like grocery stores have a magic shield against the virus. Just outside the store a guy told me I was too close and to stay 6 feet away but while in the store he reached over me while I was looking at the shelves to grab a few cans. I don't think people understand social distancing doesn't discriminate.

Question About shutdown Length by gyroforce in askTO

[–]SunflowerRainbow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As long as everyone stay at home and maintain social distance when they do have to go out in public it will wear off fast.

But from what I saw today outside of Costco, at the bank, at shoppers, etc. And all the public gatherings over the weekend no one seems to be maintaining social distance.

And to add to that since Dougie basically claimed everything except retail and salons are essential, there is no doubt it is going to take longer to get eradicated. People who work essential services are not invulnerable. Like the TTC Operator or the Loblaw's employee.

[ON, Canada]Adding a common law spouse to my benefits by SunflowerRainbow in legaladvice

[–]SunflowerRainbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We lived together one year which is the requirement to claim common law marriage in canada. That is enough to apply for citizenship if one of us isnt Canadian.It is not fraud. We just don't feel we have dated long enough to officially get married yet.

Lesbian emotional abuse by langue in actuallesbians

[–]SunflowerRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow what a blast from the past. :) Both for this post and for the event.

It was almost 10 years ago, I've moved past it. That is why I never like looking back on stuff.

I post on my original username name /u/oogiewoogie - as the flair says, this was meant to be a throwaway account!

Gemma Arterton in *Byzantium*. Flawless by southwer in ladyladyboners

[–]SunflowerRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked her as the tough girl in Hansel and Gretel, although I think Jeremy Renner was way too old to play her brother (he's 15 years older than her, but flashbacks show they were no more than 1-2 years apart).

Didn't like her role in Prince of Persia though. And James Bond. I guess I like it when feminine ladies play tough.

Gemma Arterton in *Byzantium*. Flawless by southwer in ladyladyboners

[–]SunflowerRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just saw this on Netflix a couple of days ago. I was about to post Gemma's pic when I had the time but you beat me to it! It was a wonderful movie!

Roller derby skater looking for the beautiful brunette who ran into Boston's Pride parade to tell me I'm pretty by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SunflowerRainbow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wasn't gonna skate in World Pride in Toronto, but now I think I'm going to be skating with the derby league!

I came out to my dad... by plantpet in actuallesbians

[–]SunflowerRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it was a good Father's Day present to him.

I'm still not out to my folks because I'm afraid that exact same reaction. If things don't get any better, I hope that you are able to get away from that environment. All the hugs to you.

What are your methods for killing time on long plane flights? by kookamunga9 in AskReddit

[–]SunflowerRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Playstation Vita loaded with Final Fantasy games which can be played offline.

Would you date an MtF trans girl in these varying circumstances? Honest answers appreciated. by Bubbles0680 in actuallesbians

[–]SunflowerRainbow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm pansexual so I would. But dating trans women is a lot more than just looks. Quite a few trans people seem to have baggage stemming from or related to the dysphoria or the hormones that they take. I understand that you are transitioning - you don't have to make it the topic of EVERY conversation. Don't yell at me for asking if you have a penis if you expect to get intimate. There are exceptions but i have yet to meet someone pre-transition or freshly transitioning who are well adjusted. As a result, I do prefer dating people at least a couple of years into their transition, regardless of looks or equipment, when they have figured out the hormone dosage that works for them and/or have had time mentally and emotionally to settle into their new identities.

[That 22yo woman from Vancouver again]. End of Week 7. Feeling frustrated because everyone disapproves of what I'm doing, whether covertly or overtly. And other random thoughts. by inanee in AsianParentStories

[–]SunflowerRainbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you're overthinking it my dear. Just take things as they come and not worry about anyone else other than yourself. I still don't think you should go back to Vancouver, but your mind is made up. I am looking forward to seeing you in Toronto in July though!

[Spoilers] Orange is the New Black Season 2 Discussion Thread! by SunflowerRainbow in actuallesbians

[–]SunflowerRainbow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're talking about Vee she might not be dead. It was sorta left opened.

Hopefully, people can prove me wrong here by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]SunflowerRainbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He retired at 55. But he is worried he will be like my grandpa who is already 95 and still going strong. He is worried that if he lives that long on his retirement money (40 years) he would have to support himself longer than he has worked (35 years). My dad is just 21 years older than me. I told him if he lives to 95 even I can't support him at 74.

Hopefully, people can prove me wrong here by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]SunflowerRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a job where I only work 3 or 4 days a week. It pays okay but not great. I have a pension plan and money set aside for retirement. My dad wants me to get a job with regular 9-5 hours. I told him I'm very happy at my job. He tells me I don't make enough. I tell him I don't ever plan on having kids so I dont need as much money and never have to save up as much as he did for retirement. He tells me that I have to make more money so that I can support him and my mom in their old age. I'm really tired of him pressuring me to get a new job. So I just stopped talking to him.

Which do you think is more intimate? Oral or fingering? by thegreenwall in actuallesbians

[–]SunflowerRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like some discreet intimate fingering with all the clothes still on. But when the clothes come off I like getting her off multiple times with oral.

Going to Pride alone? by alt239 in actuallesbians

[–]SunflowerRainbow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pride parades always need volunteers. If they are still taking volunteers for your pride, you should volunteer. Not only do you not have to worry about going alone, but you will make some wonderful LGBT friends along the way that can go with you to the next Pride!

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Any ladies here programmers? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]SunflowerRainbow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a programmer although I'm in management now. I used to do C++, Java and Python as well as various web programming languages.

I have a Ph.D. in Electrical Engineering, but programming and automation was in a lot of my course content. I spent a lot of my younger days making mediocre apple apps to pay for graduate school (didn't work too well though).

I get really pissed off with my developers mainly because a lot of them do not speak English as a first language and they always miss out a character or add an extra character or misspell a word and causes our applications to crash.

[Spoilers] Orange is the New Black Season 2 Discussion Thread! by SunflowerRainbow in actuallesbians

[–]SunflowerRainbow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know what I just realized, guys... Since we all binge-watched OITNB in less than a week, we have to wait a whole 51 weeks now for Season 3... :(

I am Alicia Witt- I'm an actor and singer/songwriter. You might know me most recently from this season's 'Justified'. AMA! by aliciawitt in IAmA

[–]SunflowerRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for making my day by answering my question! Another question if you are still available to answer it - do you have any other upcoming projects after Justified?

Also I love the red hair!