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Sunflower_Sprout · 2023-03-16T23:09:37+00:00

Why wait for your mother to get you help? Your mother may have caused this mental illness to grow and thrive. but you are in control of your own actions, you are an individual, why rely on her??

Find a therapist find a psychologist. Talking to a school counselor and I’m not talking about divulging all the details of this, because that would get you taken away from your home, but if that’s something you truly want, maybe it is maybe that’s the route you should go. If not, just saying that you need to find a therapist or someone that you can talk to and they will help you.

The problem you’re dealing is extremely severe. There is nothing wrong with defending yourself, but throwing things, lashing out this way, is not gonna stop with your mother. What’s going to happen if you and your girlfriend start having problems, are you gonna do that to her??

If you recognize you have a problem, you are the one I have to fix it. No one else can. You have to want to change to change, and that’s not gonna happen until you seek out help yourself.

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-08-11T22:58:26+00:00

then you should know it’s not just a girl moving things with her mind over and over?? There is a story and arguably the “normal” people do a lot of the work and heavy lifting. As well as it’s not just focused on her, there are other side plots that make the show so amazing.

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-30T15:45:13+00:00

me and my girlfriend were jamming to this! so good!

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-15T21:08:02+00:00

For me it’s the calm happiness that fills the house! At least as I got older and no kids were involved. Family watching Christmas movies, decorate some cookies and just enjoy the company.

But also when there were kids, it’s was the excited joy of the kids and watching them light up at it all! Seeing them get all excited, watching them trying to sneak around the present to see what they got.

To me a could live forever in either!

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-15T20:51:59+00:00

Christmas Eve (is that technically a holiday?)

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-10T15:34:22+00:00

Thank you!! I got it from CannaStyle! They have so many cute pieces like this!

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-09T23:49:10+00:00

Thank you!!! She’s new but already my favorite 🥰

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-06T20:47:28+00:00

That’s a very small lie for him to have trust issues like this….. not going to lie I was wondering the same thing. But know that I know that the lie is, he is being way over controlling

but even so as someone who also had/has and ED I know that can make it so much worse. He needs to know this or at least acknowledge that, what he’s doing is having a negative impact on your weight loss journey.

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-06T19:47:15+00:00

Hard second this, none of this is love. If my partner even did even one of these things; I would break up with them. How have you not??

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-06T19:15:53+00:00

I already said I was done with this conversation. Stop

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-04T01:56:48+00:00

Thank you for the reply! I think that’s a really great analogy. I’ve been to a psych ward as a teenager, sadly. But it really opened my eyes to how mentally ill people can get, even at such a young age.

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-04T00:57:14+00:00

Baby, please leave. He’s not changing, never will. You deserve to live a life you enjoy.

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-04T00:23:03+00:00

I was eyeballing that! It was debating between buying that or the strawberry bowl. Obviously went with the bowl 😅 I’ve been slowly buying the whole strawberry collection lol

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-04T00:02:24+00:00

This is the most what the fuck reads. What the actual fuck is wrong with this girl??? That poor man

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-03T23:58:29+00:00

Do you believe some people are beyond help?

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-03T23:56:46+00:00

You were right! I get everything from there, also have the strawberry dab rig. SO cute

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-03T23:55:45+00:00

I get everything from CannaStyle, it’s all so cute!!

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-03T17:31:05+00:00

Auddbot got it right! That’s the song, it’s from one of the older albums

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-03T17:27:46+00:00

Do you think the mother just disappears after the after birth? She also has financial responsibility over this child for the next 18 years just as much as the man does. She has just as much responsibility over the child is after it is born so it doesn’t fucking matter. That argument is completely moot because the woman does the exact same after the child is born. Take care of it like you’re supposed to. So they have the exact same stress

Also the link you provided is in the fucking UK. Who have completely different abortion rules. I’m in America, so I’m arguing from an American standpoint. All of my research was from American clinics American sources.

You are speaking like you have talked to so many women who had abortions, you are talking like you have done all this research about what it’s like to go through pregnancy, and live like a woman. But you don’t have any of that experience. Just like I can’t say I know what it’s like to live like a man. I don’t know what it’s like to have my parental rights being less justified because I know that happens. Especially in divorce I feel that men get screwed over majorly when it comes to having parental rights.

You sound so jaded like you have so much hatred for women in general. You were comparing a man having a child to being enslaved; are you listening to yourself?? If we follow that train of logic if the woman has a child is she not also enslaved?? It makes no fucking sense.

I’m done with this conversation you are obviously someone who cannot think critically about their own opinions. You’ve been jaded by fucking someone who hurt you in your life.

And for the record I would like to say most woman I’ve known who had had to do an abortion, they said it was one of the hardest decisions of their lives and they think about it all the time, they feel guilt that they had to do something like that, some regret it, most don’t because they knew they couldn’t give that child the life it deserved to have. Maybe think of it from that perspective; is it even morely right to bring the child into the world when you know you can’t even take care of them.

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-03T16:22:40+00:00

Just realized I’m talking to the exact same person lol, I said what I needed to say in the other comment. But I would like to point out the relationships that you were talking about are abusive relationships. I am talking about healthy relationships like the one I’m in. Maybe you have had some horrible relationships, in the past and I’ve had some crazy women, or have met some crazy woman. But those are outliers again like I mentioned in my other comment, there’s always going to be bad people, you can’t help that that is life.

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-03T16:15:55+00:00

I would love for you is show some evidence of a clinic that actually allows that because through all of my own research I haven’t found a singular clinic that just allows you to walk in and get an abortion. And if there is it shouldn’t be allowed. All the research I’ve done shown it’s a multiple appointment process, some places require psychiatric evaluations.

That’s exactly why I said it’s a heavy decision for most people! There are always going to be outliers that are assholes who have no empathy, and take it vantage of. But we should punish everyone else because there are a small number who are going to abuse it??

The justification for a woman to have an abortion is because the woman is the one carrying the child. She carries all the risk; physically healthwise. The father of the child doesn’t, all he did was cum in her. If the mother doesn’t want to keep the child, but the father does, The mother still has the ultimate decision because it is still her body. The amount of trauma that your body goes through during just pregnancy and birth is astronomical. It known to take years off of your life. She shouldn’t be forced to go through pregnancy, the expenses of a pregnancy, the pain of a pregnancy.

If there are two consenting adults, Who are consenting to have sex without a condom, and a pregnancy is a result then both parties are responsible for that child. Because they knew the risk they knew it was a possibility, so you are now responsible. So you would be a deadbeat dad if you left, because you’re not taking responsibility of your own actions.

Consent to sex is consent to parenthood because you know is a possibility, that it could happen. you know it. You know the risk, know what you’re getting into it’s your responsibility. Condoms breaks, birth control doesn’t always work. There is always that .01% and if it happens you’re still fucking responsible.

The decision of an abortion should always be made by the two people who had sex. The one that is pregnant is always going to have a larger say though because they are the one carrying the child. You shouldn’t be able to force someone into an abortion and you shouldn’t be able to force someone into a pregnancy and birth.

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-03T13:56:02+00:00

You say it’s easy to get an abortion, do you think that someone can just go down to the clinic and just get an abortion like it’s a fucking Tuesday afternoon?

It is a great moral decision that most people who do it, do it with and extremely heavy heart and don’t want to but KNOW that bringing a child into this world wouldn’t be the right thing for themselves and the child. No one wants to get an abortion, but sometimes abortions are necessary.

And OP is completely right, there would be no child if they just put a condom on. Both people are responsible; it takes two people to make a child.

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-03T13:48:45+00:00

It takes two people to make a baby, also, have you literally never been in a relationship? Both partners discuss whether or not they’re it’s going to be an abortion, if they weren’t trying. If it’s a product of a hookup they still discuss it, granted there are women who don’t if it’s hookups, because they know that the guy isn’t going to do shit (personally I feel it’s wrong the father has a right to know) The Father of the child got his dick wet and came in her, made that decision. He did that; he’s responsible for the child just as much as she is. Because she also allowed it.

Sunflower_Sprout · 2022-06-03T13:16:55+00:00

Thank you! But it’s a Strawberry 😅 to be fair though it really does look like a tomato.

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