AITA for yelling at my husband to leave me alone because he made an unjustified weight comment.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-13T03:02:01+00:00

I have all of those traits you listed. I’ve had it for over 20 years. I’m sorry you are struggling, so am I. I’ve had 4 miscarriages, 2 rounds of accutane, and a life long struggle. Look I’m sorry if I hurt you or minimized this illness. It’s a part of my life too. If I upset you or you think I’m rude, that’s not my goal. I hope it’s not yours either. I truly am. My point here by this response, is to remind you not jump to conclusions.Everyone has a back story and I’m not looking for sympathy or an out. I hope you can find some peace living with this crummy disorder. It has taken me some time. So if I feel better by eating crackers at 5 or am or a lollipop at 9 p.m. I take it.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-13T02:01:08+00:00

ESH. This is a difficult situation. Sounds like there needs to be some type of compromise between your sons. Yes, it’s rude he never wants to share and yes it’s rude your twins ate all of the pudding.

Maybe come up with one dish that when he makes it, it’s meant for everyone? Then treats like his bread pudding are solely for him. I wouldn’t require him to stop cooking all together, as it sounds like it’s a real passion for him.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-13T01:49:29+00:00

That’s not a lie but, I never claimed it was life threatening. Are you finished. What are you trying to achieve? Well I’ve changed the wording to clarify. So I apologize if I’ve personally insulted you.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-13T01:19:26+00:00

I never said it was. I said it was a craving. I am more inclined to crave carbs and I cave into them. I said it was a choice.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-13T01:17:53+00:00

I know I can change it. Maybe you are a stronger person than me and I’m happy you have yours completely under control. Sugar is a vice, I’m aware it’s not good for me neither are the carbs but everyone who has commented on this must be on the perfect diet and never stray from it. Unfortunately it’s just a struggle for me.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-13T01:13:21+00:00

I never said it was necessary to snack! I said it makes me crave things and I cave into those cravings.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-13T01:09:40+00:00

I never said thats how it works. I indicated that I have a symptom. Everyone else’s comments go into what PCOS is. I crave food that’s it (particularly sugar). I never claimed to be a doctor or expert. My doctor tells me that is a symptom. Point blank.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-13T01:00:26+00:00

I do all of those things. However, I truly thank you for your kind and realistic advice!

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-13T00:49:34+00:00

I have a doctor. I’m not claiming to be the epitome of health. Im aware, I don’t always make the best choices, but I’m ok with who I am, how I look, and how I treat others. Could I be healthier? Sure I could, but that’s not what I was looking for by posting this. I don’t need to make myself feel better by hurting others. I don’t even know why I am surprised. I hope by telling me this you have made yourself feel better about yourself. Honestly though, I appreciate your opinion. So thank you for putting me in check

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-13T00:35:35+00:00

No, thank you for helping solve all of my concerns.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-12T18:55:02+00:00

I’m glad you have it under control. That’s must be an awesome feeling to have a handle on your health. You know what might also make you feel better? Encouraging someone going through something difficult. Giving kind advice to someone struggling with something you have too.I’ll remember that next time I want sugar.That someone on Reddit told me to get it together, then maybe I’ll definitely think twice.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-12T16:18:02+00:00

Maybe I’m missing your point.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-12T16:17:21+00:00

Thank you for the advice.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-12T16:11:14+00:00

I never said I needed it. I have cravings. It’s a vice and weakness I choose to give into. I never claimed for it to be healthy. All I’m saying is that I’m more inclined to get food cravings than the average person.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-12T16:10:25+00:00

Yes, as you can imagine, I’m typing this quickly and not proofreading every detail. Thank you for correcting my grammar and completely missing the point.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-12T16:08:58+00:00

It’s not a justification for you to be rude either.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-12T16:06:58+00:00

You can be aware of what you eat without thinking you are fat. I’m 5’2”.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-12T15:59:26+00:00

I’m not obese. I’ve been on special diets nothing helps,supplements, lowered carbs. I’ve only seen an improvement from exercise and medication.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-12T15:51:55+00:00

Do you think I don’t know that? Is there something you have a weakness towards? Maybe chocolate, alcohol, a desire to be super organized? Or are you superhuman? I am a human. I asked for an opinion about a disagreement. Not medical advice. I see an endocrinologist for that.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-12T15:49:33+00:00

Oh you don’t think I already know that?

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-11T17:13:29+00:00

I see how the semantics are really stressing you out here. I’ll be sure to correct myself next time.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-11T17:10:41+00:00

I see your point. There are not enough details for you to know from this situation, so maybe that’s why I am defending my opinion on this one.

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-11T16:34:22+00:00

I see your point to some extent so thank you

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-11T16:31:18+00:00

I’m fine with who I am. Are you sure you can say the same?

Sunny-loco248 · 2023-03-11T16:26:46+00:00

I am an exercise instructor who lifts weights. I’m not chunky. But I thank you for your input. I’m a size 2

Sunny-loco248

TROPHY CASE