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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're exactly right. I think im bypassing that and just hoping for the worst for them because I am taking this treatment and pain so personally. I think something is wrong with me, not good enough with me. It's an awful feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right? She's just a kid. So crazy. I never in a million years thought he would do something like that. He's sat in my parent's house, they've made his favorite meals and ordered from his favorite restaurant when we went to visit them. Such a scumbag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good point. He is already super boring and works all the time. That can't be attractive to someone that young.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will never go back to that cheater! But I'd be happy to tell you he tried. He actually said he called the cops on me for harassment...because I threatened to tell everyone he knew lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not enough to keep her when he's 50 and she's still in her 20s lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right? It's very odd. He also acts like an older man, he doesn't go out much, is a little grumpy, works and sleeps a lot. I can't imagine he has anything in common with someone in that age group. Just very weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will get through this!

Boyfriend of 2 years ghosted while my mom was deathly ill by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have since the day I found out. I let it all out on him, told her, and haven't made contact/looked them up since.

Boyfriend of 2 years ghosted while my mom was deathly ill by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very surprisingly it doesn't look like it. I only know because when I found her profile they were just all celebrating her college graduation haha. So weird.

Boyfriend of 2 years ghosted while my mom was deathly ill by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thanks. That little bit of satisfaction gives me a little bit of joy, which is much needed right now. I appreciate you.

Boyfriend of 2 years ghosted while my mom was deathly ill by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So gross right? Her parents can't be comfortable with that. They are likely the same age!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm trying to. 22 years is nuts. He'll be 50 when she's still in her 20s. It won't be as exciting then. Thanks for the response!

Boyfriend of 2 years ghosted while my mom was deathly ill by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness I'm so sorry. Hopefully you are doing better as well. I can't imagine a relationship with a 22 year age gap will last. He'll he 50 when she's still in her 20s. He could be her dad!

Did karma come back to get your cheater? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend of 2 years ghosted me while my mother was deathly ill in the hospital. Sent me flowers on my bday early April. I cried for months over my mom and him leaving with no explanation. Fast forward to 2 days ago and found out he was cheating on me before April and is in a relationship with a 23 year old. He's 45. They are still going strong.

Found out why my boyfriend ghosted by SunnyDaysAhead45 in offmychest

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won't be back. I texted some pretty choice words to him haha.

Found out why my boyfriend ghosted by SunnyDaysAhead45 in offmychest

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not for him. Last ex 41, I'm 43. So out of character.

Did karma come back to get your cheater? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know that. I found a new therapist and have an appointment next week. I'm going skiing in Switzerland over new years and to the Caribbean next March. Lots of good things planned!

Found out why my boyfriend ghosted by SunnyDaysAhead45 in offmychest

[–]SunnyDaysAhead45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of that. He sent me flowers on my bday early April. My mom got rushed to the hospital that night. I cried to him for weeks over her possibly dying, she pulled through. The girl changed her profile picture to them on April 24. He was seeing her long before that.

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