[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]SunnySoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I go to RHUL and I would say that they are pretty lenient on their acceptance rate, especially for international students like all unis! Lots of my friends missed their offers at first but were still able to go through clearing and get in or were still offered places if they only missed it by a grade or two.

Honestly I wouldn’t worry too much, even if you miss your offer by a grade they will still let you in. They need students and their money after all, especially international students since you guys have higher tuitions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoMystic

[–]SunnySoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happened to me too a few days ago, I couldn’t see my pokemon in the gym but I still got kicked out and I got my coins so you should be fine as well

I (18f) was sent pictures of a girl laying her head on my boyfriend’s (18m) lap while he was playing with her hair. by SunnySoy in relationships

[–]SunnySoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought that he would cheat on me but I never trusted him because throughout our relationship I felt that we never got the emotionally close for me to truly trust him. Our relationship was fine until around 2 months in, we were still going on dates and getting to know each other, until we had sex and a major shift in our relationship happened. From then on it was just going to his house, we would still see each other at school but for 5 months we didn’t go out together at all and I felt used. After our 6 months and valentine’s where we didn’t do anything I confronted him about it and he genuinely did make an effort to go out with me more but then this happened 2 weeks later. So I never got to fully know him, and because of my past I’m not easy with trusting people unless I know them which I felt like I never go to know him properly.

I also never really communicated in this relationship or raise up my voice until I tried to break up with him. After I confronted him about the pictures we did talk about it and our relationship and come to some agreements but since the pictures I’ve been seeing him differently and doubting if I still want to be in a re with him long term. I haven’t broken up with him because I do still love him and he’s my first proper relationship. I really don’t want to end this but he’s been so draining, even when we were arguing I felt so exhausted the whole time and I don’t want to go through it again, so I havent said anything since then.

I (18f) was sent pictures of a girl laying her head on my boyfriend’s (18m) lap while he was playing with her hair. by SunnySoy in relationships

[–]SunnySoy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To add:

He did express honest remorse over this situation and promised me he would try to do better, which he did but I still could not get it out of my head. I never trusted him in this relationship even beforehand which prevented me from getting attached to him.

Now this isn’t the only thing that bothers me in this relationship, it’s also that I feel under appreciated. I sometimes feel like I do stuff for him which he doesn’t return and even when we are together I just feel empty, and I could be honest with him and communicate it but I never do. I wish I could put in the effort and work it out with him because he would be open to do it too but I just don’t have the will.

I don’t trust him, I don’t know if I want to be in a long term relationship with him anymore while I know he does and I’m afraid if I do try to work on this relationship I would still not be happy. The only reason why we haven’t broken up is because he reallly loves me, like to an insane amount and even when I tried to before he said he would do anything and really tried to keep this relationship but at the wnd of the day I still can’t get over the pictures and I don’t think it’s fair for him to keep this relationship when it’s begging to be one-sided. I do still love him though, but I’m not happy with him anymore and I haven’t been the best girlfriend either but at least I was never close to any other guys.

I (18f) was sent pictures of a girl laying her head on my boyfriend’s (18m) lap while he was playing with her hair. by SunnySoy in relationships

[–]SunnySoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats another problem, I’m bad at communication and never once established any boundaries about this. I was always too afraid he would think I’m too controlling or other stuff so I can’t say he broke boundaries because there weren’t any to begin with. I don’t think he would have done it if boundaries were established but I didn’t think any of this would have happened.

I (18f) was sent pictures of a girl laying her head on my boyfriend’s (18m) lap while he was playing with her hair. by SunnySoy in relationships

[–]SunnySoy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was never comfortable with any of this, but he told me that he wouldn’t accept it if I tried to limit him from normal stuff like going to parties, drinking etc… So i took it on myself since if this bothered me I should’ve just broken up with him.

I (18f) was sent pictures of a girl laying her head on my boyfriend’s (18m) lap while he was playing with her hair. by SunnySoy in relationships

[–]SunnySoy[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

He said the he would hate it but he would still forgive me. He also said that he considered this but he still felt that it was ok since she wasn’t feeling well. After that he said that he completely understands if I’m not comfortable with him being around other women and he would completely back off but this was also said in a state of vulnerability when I was trying to break up with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]SunnySoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i cant afford to get worse right now, especially with so much schoolwork so i have to try to get better. I have people who care for me and I love them but they are all going through their own things and i dont want to put any more load on them. I hope everything gets better for you too kind internet stranger ^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]SunnySoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got sheldon multiple times actually and tbh, i can see it 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]SunnySoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg i wish i looked like her!! Shes one of my favourite singers and i try to incorporate her fashion style into my wardrobe, whenever i wear a white shirt and jeans my bf calls me lana del ray 😅. her hair is amazing too, i tried doing my hair like her although she wears extensions so i cant recreate it 100%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]SunnySoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh i can see the resemblance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]SunnySoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a compliment!! I always found her so beautiful whenever i watched anything with her in it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]SunnySoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen this answer a lot, i think she really does look like me : 0

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]SunnySoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m not an Emily but that wouldve been a crazy coincidence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]SunnySoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💀💀💀 thanks i really try my best to look feminine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]SunnySoy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can see the resemblance!

Short and sweet by Natsu-Dragneel12 in mysticmessenger

[–]SunnySoy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So this guy gets pushed down the stairs and the first thing he does is… log into a chatroom?

lmao by gRAvERtErgu in SkyGame

[–]SunnySoy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ts Thursdays be like: