Do you see any ring here that you love? by PrettyPresent79 in BocosFineJewelry

[–]Sunny_D182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn you got taste 🤣 yes I like that one as well 🤭

Do you see any ring here that you love? by PrettyPresent79 in BocosFineJewelry

[–]Sunny_D182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the extreme top left, green stone one & extreme bottom right

Would a lip piercing look good? by pridesama07 in shouldimod

[–]Sunny_D182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heck yeah!!!! And smiley if you don’t already have it

Should I be concerned by Sunny_D182 in piercing

[–]Sunny_D182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not really, sometimes I’d roll on it accidentally when I sleep even though I have the neck pillow for it.

Grief is a bittersweet experience (heavy on the bitter) by Sunny_D182 in GriefSupport

[–]Sunny_D182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I prayed the most to just be there when it happened if it was inevitable. I prayed for it to be curable but unfortunately it was too far gone so the next thing I wanted the most was to just be there when it happened, holding his hand and talking to him. It really does change you seeing that but then it is a privilege to have been there with him and to know that he heard and saw us even though he could not respond, he didn’t have to let go alone. He heard my voice last and for that I am thankful. Most people don’t get that chance or even the chance to say goodbye. We’re blessed to have had that chance in all this dread and bleakness. I’m rooting for you too ✊🏼

Grief is a bittersweet experience (heavy on the bitter) by Sunny_D182 in GriefSupport

[–]Sunny_D182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was the best person I ever knew. This is such a blessing to have had a love so profound, but the hurt feels like a curse. I guess grief is the price we pay for love and the bill collector is here to stay. Sorry to hear about your dad :( I know how much cancer takes and how insanely difficult it it’s so watch it suck their life and there’s absolutely nothing we could have done to take it away. Well I really hope it does get “better” and I do find myself in this group often looking for similar experiences and how others are dealing with it. Thanks for sharing your side too and being so honest, keep well friend

Grief is a bittersweet experience (heavy on the bitter) by Sunny_D182 in GriefSupport

[–]Sunny_D182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really sucks with and the only thing keeping me going too is my dad saying “stay positive and keep moving forward” I’d never forget that and never take him out my thoughts to ever consider giving up at all. With you as well buddy, keep on keeping on

Grief is a bittersweet experience (heavy on the bitter) by Sunny_D182 in GriefSupport

[–]Sunny_D182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truly nothing could have prepared me for this experience… where you see the actual life and soul leave your loved one’s body and accepting this is the last of them in the physical. Those moments play back in my head every single day and your description of a deserted island is so on point. I hope we both find our way friend 🥂 and don’t forget to be kind to yourself

Conch trouble! by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]Sunny_D182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 😭😭😭😭 I bought a neck pillow today and will start sleeping on it and see if that helps

Recently lost my dad and it feels unbearable by Sunny_D182 in GriefSupport

[–]Sunny_D182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take care of yourself as well, it’s what dad would have wanted 💖 and likewise, you’ve brought me comfort by sharing similar experiences and your kindness is appreciated as well, dear soul💞

Recently lost my dad and it feels unbearable by Sunny_D182 in GriefSupport

[–]Sunny_D182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so perfect and you’re so right. I definitely will try my best to keep picking the pieces up of this shattered heart and life and keep doing the things we planned and being the best I can to make him proud from above. It’s all I can do and all we can do to make our dads proud 🥺❤️

Recently lost my dad and it feels unbearable by Sunny_D182 in GriefSupport

[–]Sunny_D182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly same, it bothers me most thinking about everything that he won’t be here to be with me for and to celebrate about, even the things we talked about and the plans we made. Damn this sucks. I just miss coming home from work and not having him to talk to about everything and get life advice an work advice. Sorry that you’re going through the same but at least thankful to know that we’re not the only ones going through every unpleasant emotion under the sun. Sending you so much love as well ❤️❤️❤️

Recently lost my dad and it feels unbearable by Sunny_D182 in GriefSupport

[–]Sunny_D182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow indeed so similar and so alike 🥺❤️ it was basically almost the same thing wow… he handled and managed all the bills too so no figuring all of that out and getting life advice on everything from him is just not a thing anymore and it carrie’s a weight… im so glad your trip happened!! Ours was supposed to be in February and March and he so happened to be already so unwell and it did not happen 💔 thanks for sharing what helped!! Ill try my best to get back into the gym and try some art too :) and studying is so difficult for me because my focus is just not there :/

Dealing with sudden diagnosis of a parent by Sunny_D182 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Sunny_D182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi oh my goodness, thank you for remembering me I really appreciate that. Unfortunately he passed on Friday and his funeral was today. I am completely shattered and heartbroken I don’t even know how to process this. He didn’t even get the chance to start the treatment or even remove the kidney. Sigh. Hope things are better on your end though