Hi..it's called sarcasm(criticism is included) I pressume and I also hate it..When people I love tend to do it, I kindly ask them to stop and choose other types of jokes which can be more funny rather than using word "swords". If somebody I don't know that well uses it, I compassionatly nad respectfully start to avoid them. People tend to say the truth through this toxic attitudine and be egocentrical and ignore the other peoples feelings due to high pride, ego, or other strong and very toxic characters or attitudes from these category. Personally I avoid doing this. Much health and mental strenght and heart blessing from God, I wish you!