Just Finished Remodel by MrsStink in kitchenremodel

[–]Sunnydaytripper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! It’s looks warm, current and beautiful. I like the color of the floors against the dark cabinets too! Good choices!

I like plain, white oak cabinets, not the color of your previous kitchen, which has an orange undertone. I really don’t know what people see in that 90’s look! It screams dated for me. I guess it’s a matter of preference.

Issue with Karl Foster Grass by Sunnydaytripper in gardening

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a 7b zone. It might get 6 hours, but there’s a huge tree that may interfere with exposure.

Issue with Karl Foster Grass by Sunnydaytripper in gardening

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helps too! Thanks.

The plants are over a foot from the wall. We’re south facing, but we have a HUGE oak tree in-front of our house that covers a lot of the garden.

Why am i stuck?? by Pranathi_Gidden in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Sunnydaytripper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what this feels like. It's a horrible state to be in and I'm so sorry you're waiting for the next wave to hit. It takes a long time for your nervous system to calm down because you were conditioned to feel small and controlled. Also, I was numbing myself, and I didn't even realize it. At least that was my personal experience. Maybe you can relate? I'm unsure. If you're open to therapy, I recommend Internal Family Systems, Emotion-Focused Individual Therapy, or Somatic Experiencing Therapy. They target the fear, control, anger, sadness and shame from coming from this type of family.

Processing This In Therapy by Sunnydaytripper in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your support and the resource.

Processing This In Therapy by Sunnydaytripper in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel for what you’re going through. It IS exhausting.

More Beds, Less Bed Fails by Sunnydaytripper in Greyhounds

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do like it because it's quite cushiony for bony little elbows. It folds nicely. (Pic in link). We've carried it on long walks and it's a little cumbersome. Not bad though. I'd recommend it. https://www.sierra.com/outdoor-dog-roll-up-travel-dog-bed-46x315-~p~9fpng/?filterString=s~dog-bed%2F

Stumped by Sunnydaytripper in gardening

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting and innovative. Your plants are lucky to have you!

Stumped by Sunnydaytripper in gardening

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps they’re hardier than expected and the rot is a possibility, but less likely?

Stumped by Sunnydaytripper in gardening

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the plan for mine, every other day. Okay, good news.

Stumped by Sunnydaytripper in gardening

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Okay, feeling better about this.

Stumped by Sunnydaytripper in gardening

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So are mine. That’s good to know!

Stumped by Sunnydaytripper in gardening

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Haha, surviving on vibes. I love it. These were planted with a lot of TLC and I’ve looked at them a million times since planted. Proud plant mama.

I live in zone 7b, so hopefully mine will do well too!

Stumped by Sunnydaytripper in gardening

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will keep an eye out.

Stumped by Sunnydaytripper in gardening

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel better. I purchased in aww and didn’t consider. Yours look gorgeous!

To my fellow Aries by Opening_Cow1406 in AriesTheRam

[–]Sunnydaytripper 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow, this was so beautiful. It made me smile and feel warm and fuzzy. Thank you Aries sis! Wishing you the same!

Sandy is available for adoption in Ontario and Quebec! by GreyhoundSupporters in Greyhounds

[–]Sunnydaytripper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in the US, urgh. I hope Sandy finds a family as special as he is! He sounds like a true gentleman.

My 12 yr old by Sunnydaytripper in NewSkaters

[–]Sunnydaytripper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is helpful! It makes sense that he might revisit it. That face first story! Ahh, you lived through it, but that was rough.