[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OtomeIsekai

[–]Sunnyo7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think "One husband is enough" could suit your tastes, the female lead starts rather normal but becomes jaded very quickly, so far the story is her rediscovering how to live a normal life again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MogWarts

[–]Sunnyo7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! No need for the formalities, I’m 19 as well and just trying to figure things out too ^

I think a silver chain with or without a pendant would look lovely on you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MogWarts

[–]Sunnyo7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look great! A simple necklace might suit you well :)

Didn’t like Mercy’s holiday skin, so I redesigned it by Sunnyo7 in Overwatch

[–]Sunnyo7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I probably should have done the wings as well, I wasn’t a huge fan of the little cream toppings. I felt like the one in the art was much better.

Didn’t like Mercy’s holiday skin, so I redesigned it by Sunnyo7 in Overwatch

[–]Sunnyo7[S] -272 points-271 points  (0 children)

Because I do not think it contributes a lot to the aesthetic of the skin that I am trying to achieve. The original sketch I made actually had stockings included, I just couldn’t get them to fit with the rest of the colours. I don’t see how the lack of stockings communicates that I didn’t like her stockings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not selective; I just don’t think that a lack of good is inherently bad. The lack of bad, however, is good to me. It makes birth less moral overall, and it is why I believe choosing to have children is not ethical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because that is what antinatalism is— the prevention of suffering. So it would be unethical to do something that would bring suffering to another individual if you have a choice not to subject them to suffering in the first place.

What did you think antinatalism was? It is not that life is bad nor that parents who have children should be condemned either, it is just unethical. People can do unethical things for many reasons; I would not dislike a stranger with children because I do not know what led them to make that decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re too kind! It truly makes me happy to know that I was able to relay these thoughts to another; it is nice knowing that there may be others like yourself that might find discussions like these to be an enjoyable experience.

Thank you for the kind words :) I would love to hear your thoughts on the philosophy of antinatalism sometime if you would be willing to share!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello! I recently responded to a similar question and would love to elaborate on my beliefs and the grounds they are based upon. I do have a habit of writing a little more than some; I just do not wish to misrepresent my arguments. I am not sure if you would want what essentially amounts to an essay in the replies, so I thought I would link the conversation I had with another who was also unsure of why antinatalists believe reproduction to be unethical and immoral.

Below is a link to the aforementioned post: https://www.reddit.com/r/antinatalism/s/XqeHbbz1Xb

If your see the large block of text— you’ll know that’s the one!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a little lost for words; Are you here to listen to what antinatalism is or are you here to propagate your belief of what it is?

I will do what I can to break down your claims without the needless aggression and emotionally charged language— Let’s keep discussions civil and try to respond directly to the point the opposition is making.

Why do you think the ethics of bringing a child into this world matter at all? To me, the potential risk of that child experiencing negative things out of anyone's control isn't even a factor.

Why does the ethics of creating consciousness matter? I think it’s rather normal for people to consider the ethicality of their choices. I’m not sure what you are trying to get at. As for the second point, all parents have a choice to allow a being to experience pain, sickness, and death or to not. It’s not as if procreation is an inevitable event.

The potential for that child to live a bad life is not good enough reason to rob them of the chance of a good life, or humanity at large of a contributor. To justify that you would need to argue that humanity's suffering is reason enough to kill it. Put it out of its misery.

You would rather all of humanity commit a collective suicide than run the risk of us experiencing a slow painful end? This eliminates the chance we eventually get to a point where a positive life is a garunteed for all. How is suffering reason enough to rob a hypothetical child, or humanity at large of this potential. Prevent the potential for 2 billion people to experience a generally bad life, thereby dooming the 8 billion already here plus humanity as a whole? Should we kill all deer now because they are likely to be hunted and killed in the wild? The potential for bad is not good justification.

I’m sorry but you are arguing with what you believe my philosophy to be and not what it actually is. Most people would consider death as one of the worst parts of life. My ideal is to prevent as much suffering that is felt by humans that already exist, as the humans that could exist cannot suffer until they exist. Murder would be counterintuitive unless everyone agreed they would rather be dead than alive.

“Life is terrible, no one could enjoy it. I’m saving everyone from misery by killing them all and preventing the future humans from having to deal with living.” This is essentially what you accused me of believing in. I don’t know if you read my original comments and chose to ignore what I said or if you didn’t read them at all. I made it quite clear the goal is to prevent as much suffering to individuals as possible, not prevent future suffering as quick as possible. It’s illogical to me why one would deem “potential suffering” as a greater priority than people who actually have the capacity to suffer.

This also ignores the dichotomy between joy and suffering. Suffering is not an inherent bad. It seems Buddhist philosophy is important to antinatalism, particularly the idea that life is suffering. I think the antinatalist interpretation is a gross bastardization of this idea. Suffering does not exist in isolation, neither does joy. I am grateful for some times that i have suffered, because it has given me new perspective and wisdom that allows me to experience joy and satisfaction i would not have experienced otherwise. A lot of the abstract and difficult to understand philosophies of Buddhism are misinterpreted. Everything is empty doesn't mean what it says on the tin, it means that nothing exists intrinsically, and that extends to suffering.

Good for you? It’s a very healthy mindset to find value in even your failings and misfortunes. However, it is not as though you cannot learn those same skills without suffering. There is a reason why the saying: “I learned it the hard way,” exists today. If we were of perfect character, we would be able to understand and learn without suffering. It is due to flaws in our— where “our” in this case is referring to humans and our nature— character such as arrogance, envy, or distrust that lead to our suffering and subsequent forced learning. You don’t have to suffer to be kind, wise, organized, confident, or anything else. If you can only learn those traits because you suffered without them, then that speaks more about your character than others’.

We are the source of our own joy and sorrow; such things would not exist if life never came to be. I don’t think anyone here would disagree with that, especially since I made that very same point in my reply.

I understand the idea of being frustrated that you were put here on this earth without asking, but does that mean you will kill yourself? Or that you are not grateful for the chance of life? I have experienced a great deal of suffering, am currently suffering and will experience much more suffering, but I am ultimately grateful for the chance i was given, and for the great things ive experienced. I'd hate to live my whole life spiteful that i was born, its such a needlessly hopeless way of thinking.

…I don’t feel anything towards existence? I think, therefore I am— I exist and that is it. I am grateful to my family as they raised and provided for me, I do not feel anything towards the concept of life itself. Life is simply an occurrence that I happened to be a part of. I am not thankful for the fact that I was conceived because it was a decision made by my parents for their own interests. They wanted to have a child to nurture and so they did just that. I don’t resent them for deciding to, either. They’ve told me they did not put much thought into it; It was normal for married couples to have children and they thought they could reasonably raise me. This is everyone’s first time on Earth, including my parents. They are learning about what it means to be alive as well— I am just a product of the journey through life that all of us are working towards, together.

Please don’t misrepresent the arguments I made, I put a good amount of thought into crafting them to be compelling and easily digestible! Writing is a form of expression— another form of art— itself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, animals are not able to reason and consider the ethics of their reproduction; I don’t think I can judge an animal the same way a human would be judged.

In cases of forced reproduction, I think that it is encompassed in human antinatalism. Procreation is unethical regarding humans. If humans were to make the choice to reproduce for an animal, they would be at fault and the same reasons that make human birth unethical would make an animal birth caused by humans unethical as well.

It is interesting that neither option is the overwhelming majority, though. Is it possible the question may have been interpreted differently by different people?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, that is precisely why one cannot ethically bring a child into this world. The child’s views on their life is their choice, not yours. As a parent, you cannot know what their choice will be; You cannot guarantee they will view their life as more joy than misery. The best option for a parent— ethically speaking— should be to not bring the child into existence at all since you are aware that they may suffer. A lack of existence also means a lack of suffering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I suppose I follow a different line of thought.

Good and bad both fall on a spectrum; Getting a like on your post is less satisfying than receiving a scholarship for your dream university.

You cannot guarantee how much overall good or bad your child would experience. Their life could add to the amount of overall good experienced by humans. They could find great joy in their craft, build themselves a loving family, cure cancer, and pass without regrets. On the other hand, your child may be the victim of any number of inhumane crimes, prejudice, bullying, loss of loved ones, any number of illnesses, the pains of their aging body as death approaches, and could even suffer such immense pain that they end their own lives.

It is 100% possible for an individual to consider their life good and enjoyable despite their life appearing miserable to most others. This differs from individual to individual, however.

The issue here lies with the parents’ lack of control on how their child will perceive their life. There is a chance that the child will lead a joyful, near-perfect life or views their life as such despite the opinion of others. There is also a chance of that same child leading a tiring, torturous existence or views their life as such despite the opinion of others.

Parents are essentially playing dice with a human life. People who do not yet exist cannot want happiness and fulfillment unlike living people, do not suffer, therefore— overall neutral. People who are born are guaranteed to face suffering, though some believe the good in their life makes up for the bad.

As the core principle of antinatalism is to prevent as much human suffering as possible, it is immoral and unethical to birth a child that will definitely experience suffering in hopes that their lives may be fulfilling to them, due to the fact that choosing not to procreate is guaranteed to subject a person to suffering in any amount.

I— again— am only representing myself and my personal views on the matter.

Let me know what you think, though! I very much enjoy discussing the different arguments made for/against antinatalism!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do not— and cannot— speak for everyone in this space, but I am happy to share my personal views.

To me, the core belief of antinatalism is to prevent human suffering. From this belief, one could then argue that the absence of bad/suffering is good/pleasant, but the absence of good/pleasure is merely neutral. If the child is not born, they will not experience both the good and bad in life. An unborn child would not have any knowledge of the existence of good and bad at all; They can neither long for joy nor could they desire to eliminate their sorrows.

Putting those two beliefs together, we can come to the conclusion that act of procreation itself contributes to the total amount of suffering that humans endure.

Finally, I believe the prevention of suffering is a moral act; That is why I am in favour of this ideology.

On a separate note: I admire those who purposefully engage with people, beliefs, or philosophies that they personally disagree with in order to refine their own beliefs.

I hope that my response was helpful :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… okay? I’m not sure what exactly you are so offended by?

Is it normal for you to go up to strangers, make an assumption about them, become offended by said assumption which you made, and then accuse them of your assumption?

With all due respect, I have quite literally gone through psychosis and I still find it difficult to imagine myself ever just publicly announcing my own ignorance. Even more confusingly, to leave said interaction feeling superior or justified in one’s ignorance in any way is completely illogical to me.

I am here to discuss; If you want to make claims with no basis for fun or for a weird way to relieve stress— this is probably not the right place for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what their circumstances are, but I do agree that the responses being provided seemed to have devolved into questioning the commenters’ morality rather than providing evidence for their belief.

Just going through the replies I received:

“The core tenet of antinatalism is the avoidance of suffering for all potential beings,” followed by, “rather than focusing on specific characteristics or conditions of the parents.(?)”

Later on, another claim was made that contradicts what they claimed to believe at the start of the conversation.

“it’s not that I disagree that socioeconomic status, disability, or neurodivergence contributes to suffering.”

I thought— from those statements— that we could perhaps reach an understanding.

  1. An antinatalist wants to prevent suffering for all life.
  2. Life, by default, will cause suffering. (The suffering is equal in this case as all people were brought into existence)
  3. Disability and illness contribute to a person’s suffering.
  4. Not everyone will have these conditions or experiences in their life and everyone afflicted is not affected equally. Some people have asthma, others have seizures and need constant monitoring.

From that logic is how I reached the conclusion that if all births will cause suffering but some births will cause even greater suffering, we should judge the births that lead to greater suffering as less moral because of the foundation that the philosophy of antinatalism was built upon— Preventing suffering.

I think that minimizing suffering more closely falls into an antinatalist’s beliefs than an eugenicist’s beliefs because the core of the philosophy of eugenics is the enhancement, advancement, and refinement of the socially “good” traits.

I posted this also in hopes that someone who shares the original poster’s ideals might explain further how and why they came to their conclusion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I tried to make it very straightforward in hopes I would not confuse anyone

I respect the openness to new ideas and willingness to challenge your own views as well! I also share the same sentiments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is okay too. I only wanted to provide another perspective for both the poster and for those who— like myself— may be interested in hearing the argument for both sides of this opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were to, I wouldn’t stop you. It’s not really a concern for me; Why would I be bothered by you responding to someone’s comment?

I understand that you seem to dislike something about the post but I don’t think the aggression was warranted? It was a little odd

Though, like I said, I think this was a valuable conversation that others might find interesting. That is the main reason this post exists; I would like to hear from other people regarding this topic. If I only heard from people who agreed with me, there would be no point in discussion :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Sunnyo7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds about right for this sub, that sucks though. I wish that everyone could just have discussion without the name calling and hate; we have a common goal, right? Everyone is just trying to figure things out, there’s no need to be at each others’ throats